I recently bought a brand new flat on a new development and down in the site office is a guy that I really fancy - he is gorgeous! I also know that he referred to me as a "gorgeous girl" to one of the other people buying a flat in my block and I know that he's single. He's helped me with initial problems I had in my flat so to try and give him a hint I popped a thank you card through the sales office letter box saying maybe he could let me buy him a drink sometime...what response have I had? Nothing! It was a really casual message in the card but now I feel a bit embarrassed that he hasn't responded (this all happened last week and I know he has the card). So what do I do now? Could he just be biding his time or should I just cut my losses and forget it?
2006-08-09 01:49:21 · 24 answers · asked by long_luscious_lashes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave the ball in his court - you made the offer and he ignored it. Maybe he has a girlfriend since you did your investigating on him!! If he wants you - you've made it quite clear that you're interested - dont make any further advances as you'll only appear desperate.
If you HAVE to though - just ask him did he get your card, if he says yes, just say oh good - just wanted you to know how i appreciated your help - and leave it at that.
2006-08-09 01:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaawww. May be he's just shy and needs a little encouragement. If he doesn't call you after a fortnight, I would say he's being cocky or is fiercely shy. Either way, I would suggest a more direct approach and get the problem sorted once and for all. It's not fair on you to keep you waiting. Even if he doesn't want to go out, he should, at least, still be polite. Good luck.
2006-08-09 09:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out the answer I would love to know, I am in a very similar position myself with a girl I have met. I did the same as you and sent a casual message but have not heard anything back. Would love to hear if you do get a response from him.
Sorry, realise it doesnt help you a great deal.
2006-08-09 09:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by stryker_uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just give it a little more time, don't be to anxious! You don't have to wait around for him to see if he is going to respond back to you. He might be playing hard to get! So I think that you should just go on with your every day life, This way he will see that yes you are interested but you are not desperate! And if he is really interested in you, he will let you know if he feels the same way about you!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-09 09:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to wait but are u sure that he got ur card. if he did and didnt respond hes not intrested right now and that was a bold move u did and all but sometimes it just not the right time.maybe he just wanted to help u and thats that and gave u compliment.still u made a move so dont try again if u know he got the card then just accept that and wait.never get hopes up and looks shouldnt be all ur intrested in.good luck
2006-08-09 09:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because someone admires you and calls you gorgeous doesn't mean that he wants to date you. He probably doesn't like forward women even if they are gorgeous. He may be working up the nerve to ask you. Some men are shy. It could be so many reasons you haven't heard yet. Give it some time and he could be yours. Good luck.
2006-08-09 09:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you cut your losses... if you really are a gorgeous, interesting girl than you don't need to wait around for a guy who doesn't even respond to your offer! There should be guys tripping over themselves to take you out. If a guy is interested in a girl.. he goes for it. Don't worry about it.. just move on to the next one.
2006-08-09 08:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by BringBackTheBeats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and ask him straight him out,if hes not interested then he'll let you know.Its a scary thing to do but its not unusual for women today to make the first move although its still easier said then done,please dont feel embarrassed.Think how guys feel when they ask a girl out and they get rejected,they move on and find someone else so why cant it be the same for us women lol
2006-08-09 08:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve made the first move if hes interested he will respond, don't get your hopes up he may just want to be a friend. If hes gorgeous hes probably gay lol. Just be friendly smile say hello when you see him see what eventuates.
2006-08-09 08:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a more direct approach is in order. Why not go by his place some early evening with a bottle of wind and two glasses and invite yourself in for a drink.
2006-08-09 08:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋