i think my child has a.d.d.-does anyone know where to begin and how can i find out if she does-runs in family?

Question

she cant sit still long enough to pay attention-she is melodramatic-has a huge heart of gold-but can be the worlds most dramatic drama queen-she acts out-she bounces off the walls from daylight to sunset-any suggestions

Answer 1

why dont get a book about it ..the title is "the everything parent's guide to children with add/adhd by linda sonna, ph.d..

it tells u how to deal with the situation ......one thing good about this book ..it doesnt turn out to be a story telling book ..meaning it has short paragraphs with facts at then end of it..

I brought this book ...to understand more and to seek guidance ....or u can check out the website for more information eg .

http://www.addcures.com/add-what.shtml or
http://www.kidsource.com/kidsource/content2/add.html


My daughter has adhd she is 11 now ...after many mths of dealing with the problem i have decided to seek professional help because...it has come to a point that me alone cant handle the problem.. i dont want to regret that one day i did not do anything to help my girl ..at her age she will mature fast n her mind set will set in for good ..so if i dont do it now it will be difficult next time ..

one thing i dont believe is feeding medication ..medication alone cant help ...one cant rely on medication forever ..

If yr child is in already schooling ..u can let the teacher know about the problem and work together .the schools shld have councelling ..do check it out (thats what i do )

take care :)

u can email me or yahoo me if u need to talk i am here to listen ..
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cheers :)

Answer 2

Start with the pediatrician. Do not medicate a young child. The medications for ADD were never approved for young children. Not sure of the exact age, but make that a question for the doctor. Eliminate all allergic reactions, diet related issues, and neurological problems. If the pediatrician believes this may be a problem. Find a psychologist who specializes in the field. Eliminate all other possibilities. I was a special education teacher and saw far too many children medicated in an interest to have better classroom behavior rather than an ability to complete work in an age appropriate manner.

Answer 3

It is quite natural for some children to be chaotic in thier behavior. It depends on how old she is somewhat. Sometimes this can be caused by childhood depression. Has she had some bad experiences? Like deaths in the family or abuse? Children often become hyperactive when they can't deal with trauma or loss.
However, some kids are just different. Try not to interrupt her when she is doing something or saying something. Praise her when she does pay attention for a longer time. Encourage her dramatic skills by making up little plays she can act out and have her do it again. She might be able to do that and it will encourage her to stay focused. Cut down on the sugar you give her and the chaos and noise in the environment. Don't yell at her. Encourage her frequently and build up her self esteem.
Keep her life organized, dinner at the same time, bedtimes the same, etc. A predictable daily schedual might help make her feel more secure. Make times when you just sit and read to her or play quietly with her. Call her attention back to the topic. Watch her and again praise her when she stays focused. You just have to work a little harder with a wild child.
If she is about to go to school, you might check in with your doctor about her behavior and talk to the teacher to get some advice and prepare her or him. In some cities there are centers for treating children with "learning disabilities". They have professionals who know how to test and treat your child.
If it does run in the family as you say, then she may be just copying what she is seeing in the adults around her. Pick friends for her who are calmer.
I know it is tough, but worth all the effort.
Good Luck.

Answer 4

You left out one BIG detail...the age of your child.

Start with your family doctor. The doctor will probably prescribe medication to see if it has any affect.

School is the next place to address the issue. Be careful about labeling your child though. It does come with consequences.

And as far as your family history...I don't think until the mid eighties that A.D.D. was even considered. Some of your relatives may have had it, grew out of it, or even still have it but just have not been officially diagnosed with it.

Answer 5

I have a 4yr old son who presently is waiting to be seen by a pediatrician. My 10yr old has autism and I thought the reason for his behavior was a reflection of his brothers, Recently some of my friends confronted me and asked me to do an on line survey for children that have ADD or ADHD. Had found a number of sites in which had different surveys and an immediate answer of the possibilities in which was the problem. After doing the two surveys i booked in to see pediatrician as it is a good possibility that he has ADHD. www.dore.com.au www.oneaddplace.com.au so take a look at these two sites may give you more insight. Good luck!

Answer 6

A good place to begin is her pediatrician, but ADD/ADHD is often overdiagnosed. You may also want to try behavioral techniques suggested by a professional.

Answer 7

Please make sure that your doctor checks to see if she is asthmatic! My little guy was labeled ADD in first grade, turned out he had asthma. Just a little Lortadine everyday, and he's fine. I hate to see kids drugged out for now reason.

Answer 8

Start with her pediatrician/doctor and he can diagnose and get you started into counseling and therapy.

Answer 9

go to web md... they have a questionaire you can fill out and it gives you an idea what to watch for and if it is serious etc.