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Question

i was just wondering if any one has ever had anal sex before. i say this because my boyfriend keeps mentioning it but i am too scared to try. should i be scared?

Answer 1

I've done it and I like it. I didn't think I would but, like you, I had a bf who "introduced" me to it and I found it enjoyable. Just lube up good and be clean about it. It is certainly a different sensation but try it and see if you like it. If you don't, say so! At least you tried it and then you go on to the next kinky thing lol!

Answer 2

1. It's your body, if you don't want it, then your bf has to live with that.
2. I have done it, and, though I haven't peaked, I rather liked it. The sensation is more intense than the other side, but I find it a bit less satisfying.
3. Whether it hurts or not entirely depends on how you lubricate, both of you, and how the man handles it. For shortness - don't expect that he can put it all in at once. Go as far as you can, have him take it; the next time he can go a bi further, etc.
4. If you do with without condom, be careful that no sperm trickles to the other entrance. I think you can guess why....

Oh, yes, and if he has some ideas of going oral in the end... insist on his washing, too. I mean, I know they do something like that in some porn movies, but the women there probably have had special rinsing, or purging, to make sure the tract was clean in the first place...

Answer 3

I done it before but it's not one of my favourite things. Just make sure you have PLENTY of lube and do not go from anal sex to vaginal sex without him washing his dangly bits...I know it sounds clinical and may spoil the moment but you can imagine what germs would be on his willy if he didn't!

If you really don't want to do it then DON'T - never, ever feel pressured into doing something you don't want to do. If he keeps on about it, just say "You can only have anal sex with me if you let me stick a huge carrot up your a*se so that you can see what it feels like too". That should shut him up - it's worked for me in the past!

Answer 4

First of all only do it if your really want to don't do it just to please him.
first of all relax..........
go on to all fours with your *** in the air
make sure he is good and hard
make sure he is well lubed up
spit is good but a good gel is better
as he gently pushes against your bum hole
relax and gently push back
make the movement you make as you try to push a poo out
just as he gets the head of his willy in
this opens the ring a bit letting him in
then relax
don't let him rush
work it in slowly and gently
if you like it he will soon be inserting the whole length
and don't just go by the first attempt it may hurt the first time
due to nerves it may well be better the second time around

I have anal sex quite a lot both through my work and in my private life, With practise it can be very enjoyable
good luck
and remember it is your body and it is up to you what go's into it ;)

Answer 5

No anal is very enjoyable if you relax!! My b/f and I love it. I can have several orgasm and I likes *** all over me!! It's really Hott!! Try to get into it, take it slow, a little at a time. You will find it's almost as good as vaginal. We used Vaseline and baby oil... we were soo slippery and wet it's fun. He bends me over a chair or over the edge of my tube. I first I was scared like you, but if he is nice and easy it is fun. Just lay face down on the ground or bed legs/a*ss spread wide open and allow him to lick, suck, finger and eat you out from behind (that's how we start). After hours of pleasure he slowly slides into my anus and the feeling is Truly Over Whelming!!
mmmmmmm!!!
Good Luck!!

Answer 6

I have tried it too, you will need to use a lube, it can be painful, but only if you are feeling tense about it, I have a boyfriend for 3years, even then somtimes it doesnt work because i am not relaxed enough!!! other times its all good!! I enjoy it, but as i said before you have to be relaxed, comfortable, and really at ease with your partner!! Hope that helps!!

Answer 7

Never tried it never want to. All men ask for this at some point during a relationship! Just keep saying no if you dont want it, he will soon get the picture! Dont give in!

Answer 8

I havent as it doesnt appeal to me at all - but the only advice I can offer you is only do it if you feel comfortable with it - dont let your boyfriend pressurize you into it - its your decision and you need to be 100% sure before you go ahead with it - if you decide against it and your boyfriend gets odd - dump his sorry ***!

Answer 9

Do you love your boyfriend?
If the answer is yes, then talk to him about your worries.
If your boyfriend knew that you were a bit scared about the prospect of having his 'whatsit' in that region, I am sure he will try and make it as pain-free and loving as possible.
don't tense up, try to enjoy it and use plenty of lubricant!!!

Answer 10

Very painful. It's awful. But some women enjoy in apparently. But i honestly don't know how. If your boyfriend respects you he will not force you to do it. i told mine (after trying it once) how much i hated it and he accepts that and it's not a big deal in our relationship. Try talking to him.