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i foud out my bf password i was so surprised at what i found. he had a couple of those dating web sites, no communication w/anyone he just registred. what would you do? i feel that i can't really say anything cause i looked in his e-mail. he don't know about it. if its nothing i dont want to f*** up what we have.

2006-08-09 01:19:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Nope - you can't say a word because then he'll know you got his password & you were "snooping" - don't you hate that?! but I know I would be very upset to find my b/f had registered on dating websites; only thing is, did he register BEFORE you two got together? If so, that's one thing - if he registered AFTER ya'll became a couple, well, that's something else, isn't it? I know you don't want to mess up your relationship, but you'll need to find out when he registered - it may make a difference. I wish you all the best, my dear, & hope this had a good outcome. I was so proud of myself because the other day when I went to check my mail, my b/f had left his account open but I didnt' read any of his stuff, didn't even look to see if his ex-wife is still sending him mail & things. I felt real noble about it - for about 5 mins, then I thought, stupid! you blew a chance to see what's going on!!! lmao
We can't win, can we?? Good luck hun -

2006-08-09 01:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0 0

I did this before and he was angry. I didnt find anything bad but I was younger, suspicious, curious, and listened too much to what everyone else told me. We made up but he never forgot that I snooped and trust me... it'll come up in some arguement later on.

Now, if I had found what I was thinking was there I would have ended the relationship. Ask him why is he looking at dating websites, obviously something is missing in the current relationship.

2006-08-09 01:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0 0

i rather not read u cuz if i found somethin which is usual, i would confront him and it would make both of us angry..

but im a curious gal, i would read it after couple hrs ltr to kill my curiosity n to tell myself if i see anythin usual, i cant break into anger or suspicions cuz i chose to read it.

its really hard decision to choose, however its up to u. gd luck gal.. take care.

2006-08-09 01:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0 0

I would read it unless i had asked him first . the only thing you can do is talk to him about it

2006-08-09 01:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0 0

let it be .... she has a life and i trust her .... boring answer but that's the truth

2006-08-09 01:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Debo 1 · 0 0

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