ever since he came back from his camp hes been weird and thn he sayed he still loves me and wont ever break up w/ me but he wants a break. my bro said he likes a girl from his camp. should i belive him or not?what should i do?
2006-08-09 01:18:36 · 24 answers · asked by 2/26/10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say your brother is right, he likes another girl. I have no doubt that he cares for you but cares more about himself. He wants you to wait around but you're not his dreamgirl. He is just trying to see if there is something better out there. Why don't you break up with him and don't talk for a while? Don't give him all the power and decision making capacity in the relationship, take control of the situation and don't wait around for him to decide. If it's meant to be, he will be back, but don't wait on him...Most likely you'll find someone else who will KNOW that they want you and not ask for breaks. Good luck!!
2006-08-09 01:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you exactly what this means,I have seen it so many times,him saying I need a break is just a nice way of telling you that he wants to play the field and still have you on a string in case it doesnt work out,if he really loved you he would not need a break he would want all the time he could get with you,dont settle for this crap for a minute,there is better out there
2006-08-09 01:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be another girl he likes, but he knows that he should be with you. He wants a break because he wants to try and figure things out. Unfortunately, from personal experience i've found that breaks dont usually end up well because it means the two people are seeing things differently. I would ask him one more time what he wants to get out of it. And if he's not sure he wants to be with you then you're better off leaving. The way i see it, for every person out there unsure of whether they want to be with you, there are two that would jump at the chance to make you happy. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-09 01:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, but he's already cut another pony out of the herd & is ready to take her for a test ride! he came back from camp with a crush on another girl - if he's been weird, then let him go. any time they say they want a break, it's over. you should find someone else new & enjoy the rest of the summer with them!
2006-08-09 01:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever a guy or girl say they need a break from the relationship, most of the time it means, I am no longer interested in you because i've found somebody else better than you. The truth of the matter is everybody is looking for the bigger and better deal. I am not saying it's not right but, that is just facts of human mind and part of our heart.
2006-08-09 01:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wants a break so he can try out someone else without cheating and still know if it does not work you are still there as a back up. Take the initiative and break it off and find someone who does not need a 'break'.
2006-08-09 01:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a theory I call the 'hummingbird theory'. I have found it covers all males(bless their pointed little beaks) reguardless of any differences otherwise. 'One long sensitive sense organ that dominates their every action. And we are the fragrent flowers in this peaceful garden on feminine warmth. Let the little bird flutter around, if he is fool enough to lose a sweet girl like you.....hope he runs into alot of stink weed flowers out there.
2006-08-09 01:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by littlescreechowl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to see this other girl while keeping you on the 'back burner'...gotta talk to him about it. Tell him to be honest and not keep you hanging. I had an exb/f try this. He broke up with me long enough to hook up with another chick during spring break.
2006-08-09 01:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by tool girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,you ask him whether he like another girl and if he say 'yes' u just break up with him and he said 'no' u just acting like usually.There a lot of guy better than him.ok.:)don't mess your head just because of this guy.
2006-08-09 01:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by aya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes a girl from his camp. I'd leave him. It will make the hurt less.
2006-08-09 01:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by President25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋