Why won't women date me?

Question

Hello all :)

Simple question. Why don't women want to be with me?

Here's a portrait of myself.
23 years old
male
single
Enjoy motorcycle riding
I have a computer science degree with honours
I also have a law degree with honours
I am a lawyer
I have money and a great job with brilliant career prospects
I am not stupid
I can fluently speak english, japanese, german, spanish and persian (farsi)
I can play the guitar beautifully
I love to spoil women
I always try to be polite
Numerous women call me very handsome

Yet, none of them want to be with me.

What's going on?

And any woman who has dated me has dumped me. All of them say, "I don't deserve you" when they dump me.

What's going on?

Thanks in advance :)

Not having any friends. Does that make a difference?

I know its not about MONEY. Women usually have no idea about my material status until they start dating me.

Furthermore, I am usually quiet and gentle. Is that a problem? Does that make me come across as a 'sissy'?

Answer 1

The way I see it this could be caused by one of many things. You might have some character flaw and the women you date use this "not good enough for you" line to break it off with you before they get too attached. OR You really are too good for the women you date. This could be true if you are the kind of guy that is "too nice". I don't know why becasue It doesn't make any sense to me, but women in their early 20's are searching for the guy they can have fun with, but not settle down just yet. OR you are just dating the wrong women. You could be picking up all the ones that are just looking for a good time. You have to remember that 19-24 year olds usually aren't looking to settle down right away. They are in college or have just graduated and this is their last time to get one of the infamous "bad guys". Really, I don't know you well enough to say for sure. But you sound like a really great guy. So just keep looking for the girl who will think enough of herself to not be intimidated by you. Good luck!! Hang in there!!!

Answer 2

Seems like your husband isn't threatened by women because he's got nothing to compete with, against them... Dating and kissing women that you aren't even attracted to doesn't really sound like it's the answer, especially since it sounds like you're just doing it because you like the idea of dating outside your marriage, rather than the experience itself of dating the women. Also, I don't know if it means anything to you, but dating outside your marriage in general - with or without your hubby's permission - is considered infidelity... are you okay with being disloyal to your husband? Would you be okay if he was disloyal to you? It's important to take into consideration what kind of person you would be after engaging in the said activities... Maybe you should focus more on why your marriage isn't exciting enough already that you have to turn to "outsiders" to get that high. Of course marriage won't always be exciting, but instead of looking for a temporary thrill of dating outside, solving this problem of boredom could very well help develop and deepen your marriage and your understanding of your husband, as well as escalate the intimacy (not just physically).

Answer 3

go for a girl with higher maintanance or maybe sometihin just not rite. Its not about the money and smartness its how you treat someone as well.

Answer 4

Just be careful what you wish for. someday you might find someone who likes you for who you are, not for your job or money, but what is inside.

Answer 5

"I love to spoil women
I always try to be polite"

That becomes condescending.

Answer 6

it's something 'bout the HEART.money ain't got nothin' to do with love.(w.o.a. patience is a virtue)

Answer 7

Your leaving something out.

Answer 8

maybe your perfection scares women off.... you need to find someone who is as clever as you