Each time i reveal the fact that am hooked to any other guy that approaches me.they pick offence.. how do i go about it?
so that i wont end annoying every guy that comes my way.
is there any other polite way of doing this?
2006-08-09 01:17:06 · 25 answers · asked by glad4you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You asked only for guy's input, but this isn't a guy-only question...it's a people question...and you simply smile, and say something like "I appreciate your interest but I'm seeing someone...thank you though" and leave it at that...
You have no control over their reaction...but you do need to be straight with them...some people don't take rejection well no matter how well you couch it so that's their issue...they will learn that simply because they want something, doesn't make it theirs...
2006-08-09 01:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before everything you're giving too plenty information to ppl like he's black belt, which you're paying for high priced presents and which you wnt to loose your virginity, that's loss of understanding or too mucho information for what you prefer. If he had no longer made a circulate which skill he's not gay, you are able to admire people who're stra8 , as properly gays with their decitions or their silence. At this element you greater perfect circulate away and save the frienship, because of the fact in case you're making a circulate you will loose all, probable there is greater carnal choose than love. I say this due on your lost of virginity.
2016-11-04 04:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if you offend them or not? If you dont have the interest who cares like?
YOu could always just rephrase the way you reject them - try saying that you really appreciate the fact that they were brave enough to come talk to you but you are in a relationship and therefore are unavailable, but if you were single you'd certainly be flattered and be very happy to chat to them
2006-08-09 01:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hooked as you say, why does it matter if you annoy the other guys that come your way....just tell them and forget about being polite.
2006-08-09 01:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say sumfing funny or crazy to dem.. Maybe tell dem ur Gay or tell dem U got a Bf N dat Maybe Later If Ya break Up, dere is a Chance for dem...
2006-08-09 01:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys get annoyed when you tell them you are attatched to another guy one of two things are happening first is you let them actually try to pick you up this can be very subtle so its best to get yourr statement out in the beginning. Or you are such an appealing female that the men can't control their disappointment at not being able to get to know you! Hope it helps. reaper out................................
2006-08-09 01:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking that you have to be responsible for the way other people feel! Just tell them that you are not available and leave it at that. Don't get all cutesy and tease......act grown up and let them deal with it since it is no big deal. I am sure, sweetie, that they will get over you!!!
2006-08-09 01:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite and say you're already taken. If these guys have any dignity or self-respect, they'll take it all in a good-hearted way. If they don't, they wouldn't be worth your time anyway.
2006-08-09 01:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to be polite either.You're with someone they' can find there own lady.Tell them how it is.I'm a guy and if a women tells me she is already involved then i respect that and know that there are plenty more out there.
2006-08-09 01:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who has invested his time and emotions in you will be hurt and annoyed. There is no good way to tell him.
2006-08-09 01:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋