2006-08-09 01:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The child till 5 -7 years of age will try to grab the attention of the people around.. Try to act smart or speak like elders. I would not blame the child. U need to talk to your husband. Grow the child like a king till he is five. mould him before he reaches 13. after 13 be a good friend to him. Some times you can jus speak to the child as if u r pretending to scold him. Never spare a rod, it will only aggravate the situation. Yout husband has to play a serious role .
2006-08-10 20:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jacuti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tolerate that for one minute,if you do before long you will find it getting way out of hand,first talk to your husband and explain to him the long term affects this will have if it continues and be very firm and just tell him this will not be allowed and it stops right here and now,then sit down with your little girl and in a soft but firm voice discuss with her the language she is using,let her know that this will not help in her becoming a nice young lady when she grows up,you might not think she understands all this at 5 but trust me,I have a 5 year old and she understands way better than you might think,also express to her that as of right now this will not be tolerated and everytime she does this she will be punished.She will probably mess up a few times because this may be a habit she is starting to fall into,just give her a 5 minute time out on a chair and it wont take long she will not speak to you like this anymore
2006-08-09 08:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could make 'em both sit in the corner, I guess. It won't do any good, but you could. My daughter and her husband have a daughter who's 7 now. When she was learning to talk, however, she picked up what was going on between her parents, which was a lot of, often times, friendly bickering laced with put downs. Moreover, as she got a little older and would address her mom and dad the way they talked to each other, they would laugh and encourage her. The whole family thought it was funny. The point is, as she approached 6, all that pretty much went away, and there's never been any doubt of her respect for her parents. All she was ever doing was parroting what she was hearing. Most certainly, this may not apply to your case at all, but I thought it might be reassuring.
2006-08-09 08:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks it is funny. Maybe she hears someone else taking to you like that. She is at a age when she needs to have someone tell her right from wrong. She needs to respect you. and others . Your husband might think it funny but he is not helping. She will in time says the wrong things to him also, so you both have to work together. Good luck. Pem
2006-08-09 08:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk... my five year old niece was sayong stuff like that too... my sister started a kind of penalty system for her... my niece has a real sweet tooth, and my sister bought a gigantic bag of jelly beans, and told her that every time she says things that werent appropriate, five jelly beans would go into the 'can't eat' bag. at the end of the month, whatever jelly beans were left in the original bag, my niece could have five of a day (so she didnt eat them all at once.) it worked for my sister because before, she had just been giving her all the candy... in your case, talk to your hubby first. make him understand that its not appropriate fora five year old to using that langauge, and then try to work out something together.
2006-08-09 14:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by cookie_monster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean how to deal? you deal with it the same way as if you said it yourself-Now if you see this is wrong talk to your daughter and change your vocabulary as well your child at a young age can be a reflection of you expend your mind to reach other words try it - it will work
2006-08-09 08:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids will say anything they hear and if you don't like her language then you need to talk to your husband and tell him that he's being very disrespectful and you don't want her saying those kind of things
2006-08-09 08:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Groover_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband sounds like a jerk and he's disrespecting you through your child, I wouldn't deal, I'd walk.
2006-08-09 08:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong. Your husband is teaching her to disrespect you. It needs to be nipped in the bud right now.
2006-08-09 08:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to talk to your husband
2006-08-09 09:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋