im 15 he's 23
2006-08-09 01:06:03 · 26 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be illegal to have an intimate relationship with him in the state where you live, but it also might be good for you in that he is more experienced and will probably treat you better than your peers. Take your time and good luck.
2006-08-09 02:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by rilindy 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Sorry honey, but my daughter is almost 12, and she was 15 and tried for a 23 year old, it would be her butt. For one it is against the law, and shouldn't be happening. Does he want to date you? If he does, there is something wrong in his head. You are not an adult yet, and he is. He should see the difference and know how to react on that. I know you don't like this news, but you are young, and have a long road ahead of you. Find someone your own age that you have things in common with.
2006-08-09 01:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by lovingmom28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Da Age difference is a Great factor U have to consider because he is Much older than U... dere is Like 8 years difference.. Maybe da best thing u can do Is wait till ur 16 b4 tellin Him how u feel about him Or Just make Him ur Close friend... Dere is a Chance of him feelin da same way about U
2006-08-09 01:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't! first off, its highly illegal. secondly, you need to look for guys more around your age/maturity level. i know its hard to even imagine that a 15 year old boy HAS a maturity level, but there are some. a 23 year old has no business with a 15 year old girl. don't be in a hurry for a relationship, you've got your whole life ahead of you, whether it feels that way to you or not.
2006-08-09 01:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they say love is blind and i think it is, you should deff need to give it a try but it wont be the easiest thing. first thing is that the age factor is a major problem. since hes problaby in college or just working his lifestyle and thought process is going to be very different than yours since you should be in high school (right?). So atfirst things might seem fine but eventually it wont work out as i think. Second thing like vikkie suggested before me that he might just want to take advantage of you for a fun time, so you have to be very cautious. My ultimate suggestion is to forgot a relationship, be really good friends with him and soon you'll find a guy thats more matching. i hope you do :) stay fly
2006-08-09 01:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by mystri_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run in the opposite direction. That man has only one thing on his mind. You need to think about finishing high school and a career. You have plenty of time for a man when you are older. The best gift you can give yourself is to treat yourself well and remain wholesome.
2006-08-09 01:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not that old. Just follow your heart. If this man makes you happy, what's the problem? As long nobody hurts. Why bother about the age & how others would think about your relationship with him? My final advice is don't do something stupid like the 13yrs old student & his teacher did. You know what will happen right? Wishing you all the best with your boyfriend! Good luck!
2006-08-09 02:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.I also falling of a guy that older than me.You just have to make like usually.You can ask his email if you didn't shy.Or you be his friend.And the last thing,you give him a presents on his birthday and you write a letter in the presents to tell about your feeling.
2006-08-09 01:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by aya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a couple of years, its hard but you should be over 17 to go out with someone that many years older. even then it is a stretch. usually you should be a legal adult to make those decisions, or the guy should be within 2 or 3 years. IMHO only
2006-08-09 01:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the psychological advantage. Be careful, he can easily notice if you're in love to him or not. Maintain your composure. Act like he's just like one of those guys you called friends. Let him make the first move if he loves you. Never under any circumstances you would let go easily. Lest, you're the taking risk he's just toying around with you.
2006-08-09 01:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Frontal Lobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off that's against the law and if you are failing for this guy you need think about him going to jail because he will. Don't follow heart on this one because trouble will be the result.
2006-08-09 01:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by Ant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋