i actually admirer for someone since my childhood,and i never tell him,until i am 17 yrs old,for this years,i've told him my feelings,and guess what?he only wants us to be friends..that had make me sad and regret...but,then i can accept his statesment but now i think it's too hard for me to accept someone else,i mean aguy to be my partner...and that happens to my bestfriends that fall in love wit me,but i don't love him just b'cuz of my history...
2006-08-08 23:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by Arya S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No......get on with your life!!!
2006-08-08 23:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been living a sheltered life, you really need to get out and meet other people of your own age. You have an unhealthy obssession with this guy, and obsession that will lead to your unhappiness in the long run. You are putting him on a pedstal for some reason and you are now finding out that he is human with human frailities and you are hurting. Please listen to the advice on here and go out and enjoy yourself. Stop sitting at the window in the vain hope you can get a glimpse of him.
2006-08-09 06:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is too much to wait. People also change in 7 years. It is crazy unless you had a really strong commitment there in the first place.
Get on with your life, and don't be bitter about it.
Be happy!
2006-08-09 06:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Insomnia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.
If he wants to be friends, then let it be worth the 7 years wait.
But if it hurts that much, maybe its better to let the hurt go.
2006-08-09 06:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you're still young. Maybe your feelings and his feelings for you will change. If he can't be your lover, then be happy you still have him as a friend. Move on. Best of luck.
2006-08-09 06:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it. There's a world of people out there.
2006-08-09 06:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a dangerous thing.
2006-08-09 06:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up it's a schoolgirl crush think yourself lucky he didnt laugh in you face,
2006-08-09 06:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you'r funny ! Any more jokes?
2006-08-09 06:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by deadhead_society 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wait, you will be loney, unhappy and bitter
2006-08-09 06:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all ur eggs in one basket.... recipe for disaster. and all easy chiks are treated badly by guys
2006-08-09 06:14:15 · answer #11 · answered by matu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋