i am really pissed
2006-08-08 23:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by erumtheangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
May be you mom feels the same way you feel about her. Talk with trust and love. Find out. Convince or get convinced. It works.
2006-08-08 23:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by VedBard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to talk to your mother. Tell her that you're a person all your own.. you have likes and wants and needs and just because she may not want or need or like the same things.. doesn't mean she has the right to disagree with them.
Whenever my mother doesn't like something that I do, or something that I want.. I tell her " Mom, I'm an adult. I am a different person than you. You don't have to like or understand anything that I do. All you have to do is know that I am happy, and I am happy with my decisions."
She's your mother, and she doesn't HAVE to like what you do or what you say.. but she loves you.. and that means that you can tell her anything. So just tell her.
2006-08-09 00:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a step back, and think as a third party, is the reasons that your mum give you for the disagreement valid or not.
If your mum disagree with weak reasons, then is time for you to ask your mum the question you asked us here.
2006-08-08 23:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by shin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens with most of the people of growing age.so don,t worry if ur mum always disagrees with u try to find out sum way that ur mum agrees or u change ur way of communication. wat else u can do is read sum books on how to maintain gud relationsship with ur mum and other family members. I'm sure u will find the right answer. also this is the only time we can mould ourselves but remember we cannot mould the habits of our parents. ok gud luck
2006-08-08 23:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're in the same situation... but don't worry... moms are always like that and will always be...
you just need to spend some quality time together... be open... speak out... but remember to still have respect, and be polite... ok...
she always disagrees with you? think first... don't worry about it too much... she knows what's best for you... trust me... your mom will always think of your own good first than anything else...
so cheer up.. just enjoy your life... be happy and everything will follow... positive thinking will make life easier... plus less wrinkles.. =P
2006-08-08 23:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweet pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem in the past.I think all mums r the same.Just try talking to her directly and ash her to give u a little freedom.Dont be too rude but try comprimising with her.
hope things work out
2006-08-08 23:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like your mom does'nt even listen to you? You want to be understand, and wish that your mom has time to listen. don't feel pissed. try to look into your mom eyes maybe you'll understand her. i don't see the actual situation your in. parent's are naturally protective.
2006-08-08 23:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by roel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents can be like that, it's a love/hate situation. Just talk to her about your feels.
Goodluck and have a nice life
2006-08-08 23:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Miss LaStrange 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problum too it wz coz i also always dizagreed with wt se said so i think u must b a little close to ya mom
2006-08-08 23:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always talk about what you agree on not what you disagree on, your relationship will greatly improve.
2006-08-09 00:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by sher7us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋