i've known one guy that so nice,but had a cold feeling from the first day we met..but,then,.he turned to a very warm-hearted person in time we been a good friends...and,we were so close to one another...he then,make confession that,i am the one who has changed him to be kind and loving..hmm,maybe? and,he told me about his feeling too,that he really in love in me,.that has suprised me...because i only thought him as my forever bestfriends....but,guess what?we now was a couples of lovers...and i am happy,just i couldn't recognize my own feeling that whether i love him as a friend or as my boyfriend...?i am confused now...please help me...!
2006-08-08 22:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by Arya S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are confused on your statements. You could only help yourself. Be firm on what you actually want and act accordingly. The situation narrated is a one-way traffic and there could not be any accident in thsi traffic.
2006-08-08 22:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BEST relationships are ones that build slowly and ones that start as friendship and remain so. Having a friend as a lover is the best combination you can get, if you love him now as a friend and things are progressing then that is as normal as you can get, don't expect to love someone as a partner from the start, just enjoy what you have and make every minute count as you watch your love grow :o)
2006-08-09 05:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by fletcheyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been friends for?
If he was feeling the way he felt from the first time he met you, there's a good chance of you having a long, great relationship together.
It isn't wrong to feel love to him now that he loves you, I think it's very natural. That happens.
Boyfriend who's best friend is always a good partner to be with.
2006-08-09 05:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you both have a long & loving relation ship together
best wishes
can I have an invite to the Wedding
thank you
2006-08-09 05:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love someone as your lover and also as your friend..it is the best combination to have..I wish you every happiness hun!
2006-08-09 05:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you normally sleep with your friends it's not the done thing is it, now you will hurt this boy if you break up with him, get it right before you sleep with the next one, friends are friends, lovers are somthing else.......
2006-08-09 05:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like what i had experience..
once there was a guy i really hate..but accidentally for my surprise...he told me that he loves me,it made me more angry on him..but years after,i realized that i'm perfectly mistaken..
accidentally,i fell 4 him..but un expectedly,he told me that he still loves me up to now..
thank god.
2006-08-09 06:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by blue_guy_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soooo saddddd
2006-08-09 05:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by D T P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know by our gut instinct ,, how he makes you feel,, how you feel when in and not in his company etc,, its natural,,
2006-08-09 07:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww
2006-08-09 05:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by yummycookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋