ok my dauter has found my hubby porn wat do i tell her
2006-08-08 21:54:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ooh my god you are really in trouble try convince her now that you can have a personal life it's not her problem ok good luck
2006-08-08 21:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old our daughter is, that would be a key in knowing how to explain your husband's porn. Just be honest, and say some grown ups like to look at magazines etc like this one. Tell her it is not for children. Tell her that she is safe and that she doesn't have to worry. Reassure her that you love her. Don't give too many details. Only answer the questions she asks. You will just confuse her with details she won't understand anyway. Good luck. Pornography is not a healthy thing, and it can become an addiction. I caution you.
2006-08-08 22:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her age....if she's old enough to understand about sex, best to explain it to her. I think that it's important to be able to have an open communication with children concern all aspects of sex. That does not mean that we tell them everything, what we as adults get up to or anything like that.
Also I would also discuss how it is important to respect other people privacy and not to go searching through other people's things, if that was the case.
2006-08-08 22:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old your daughter is, if teenage then tell her the truth, nawadays Parents should teach sex educate to your children, rather been taught by others... I mean proper education. If too young, maybe she don't even know what is that, just some naked stuff... so just act along and set up preventive measure to your hubby to keep it SAFE... gd luck
2006-08-08 22:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by AK47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is not unusual for some men to be interested in porn. It does not mean that they will be unfaithful or do anything they should not. You should also tell her that she should not be looking through other peoples things and that she should respect their privacy just as she would like her privacy to be respected. Good luck
2006-08-08 22:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old. The older she is the harder it gets. If she's very young, just tell her it's grown up stuff and she shouldn't go near it. Then put it outta reach of kids. Best I can think of, sorry.
2006-08-08 22:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? if young just tell her that is Daddy's private items and to stay out of them.. and hide the porn better or get rid of it entirely....if she's a teen destroy every item...and tell her it's Daddy's private property.
2006-08-08 22:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending how old your daughter is, you could lie, but not really. you are just bending the truth. say its a book that makes daddy happy and is only for mummys and daddys? and no to touch it again. something like that. you really lying about what its about are you? hope this helped!! x
2006-08-08 21:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your daughter? if she's old enough to understand what she saw its better you sit her down and explain to her what she saw..if its possible get you hubby in on this too,its important for parents to be honest and open with their children in such cases,if you must lie do it professionally ..good luck
2006-08-08 22:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by pdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that it is a grown up thing and that she should not have been looking. And tell him to find some where else to hide them.
2006-08-09 06:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋