i love that man,recently he keep telling me he is not ignoring me and he is so busy ,but thats make me feel sad,i feel like i need to talk to him and hear his voice ,should i call him??
he is 30 and im 22 ,my mum tells me when men reach 30 they dont care about love ,is that true?
2006-08-08 21:50:08 · 27 answers · asked by borz_f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion you should NOT call him because I think if you did he would think you're an 'easy catch' n I dnt think you would really want that... There is a possibility that if you call him that wont make a difference... He wont fall in love with u but could be after things like sex... I know your mum is wrong because that is not true!!! I've learnt that it is not right to group people... Its not necessarily true about ALL men. Maybe the majority may not love but there is a small percentage out there that is worthy of your love.
Just by reading your question, I can see you are a sweet, caring... Truthfully brilliant person! You deserve some1 who will give you their all and would want to call you every other 30 seconds!
On the other hand, who I'm I to you?! I live on the other side of the globe! I cant give you advice when I know that is really hard being in a situation like yours... You know, being caught between a rock and a hard place... All I can do is leave you with my advice and hope for the best...
Good Luck Girl, I hope you find what you're looking for!!!
2006-08-08 22:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is right! Unlike teens at the age of 20-->28-, when men reach 30, they care about their career a lot more than any thing. However, it cannot take over love. cuz if there were no love, man would not exist!!!
If you do really love that man, you should call him. Cuz this is the only way that would make you feel good and relieved, isn't it? :):) Just do what the heart tell you to.
On the other hand, he said that he was busy, maybe he is! Trust him and give him a chance. Unlike young boy at your age who always like dating several girls and using flirting words, your boyfriend's got his job, his business to worry about, cannot spend all of his time for you. You should be happy about this, huh?
Keep calling him from time to time. I bet that not only you, but he will be very happy to hear your voice as well.
2006-08-08 23:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by suzielu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure that what he says is true...is he busy? Stop by his place with a surprise home cooked meal, and see his reaction. If he tells you that you shouldn't stop by without calling...it means that he might be seeing someone. Maybe he's not, but no one is ever too busy to set aside some time to meet. If he keeps doing this, find someone else...perrsonally, the first thing that came to mind is that he is seeing someone else or is no longer interested. Find someone who will make time for you.
2006-08-08 22:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men care about love regardless of age. Want to hear his voice? Then call him! Even if you just get his voice mail, let him know you were calling just to hear his voice. Even men like the sweetness of honey. He may just be really busy at work and let him know you realize that, but your heart does not :)
2006-08-08 21:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sequoia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, just be patient and call him sometimes guys can get too comfortable and forget to remind us girls that they care. And also maybe he is busy im sure hearing your voice might be soothing as well
2006-08-08 22:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but i think he is ignoring you, because when you love someone, no matter how busy you are, you make time for at least one call. maybe you should play the same card.prentend to be busy and forget to call him for a while. maybe he will realise that he misses you and then he will call you. if not, your relation is a lost cause, because he doesn't care about it.
2006-08-08 21:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by IRI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. If he loves you back he will find the time to call you for atleast a minute. Sometimes when you keep calling someone too much that is when they ignore you.
2006-08-08 21:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse sin in life is the sin of regret...Better you get rejected (ouch) than regret what might have been by making a simple phone call.
Remember the old adage...love conquers all.
2006-08-08 21:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That aint true what your mom said..... well it might be diferrent for different people according to their conditions.. but generally speaking its not.. Maybe your person is really stuck up with work....i guess you shud call him and make him feel your presence.. which mite make him to call you back
2006-08-08 21:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by matrixguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
single men at 30 should begin feeling desperate.
2006-08-08 21:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋