Everytime i go to gatherings, i always asked what kind of food they are serving, i dont want to be picky with food but i cannot eat chicken & sea foods in general & foods with eggs in it,(i am allergic to mostly all foods) there was a time i went to a party & i got nothing to eat, I felt a little self pity... I thought OMG am i really food demanding? Now everytime my friends & family invite`s me for dinner or party i always think of bringing food with me. Now i have a friend who will be having a beach party & they will be serving sea foods.
2006-08-08 21:44:03 · 22 answers · asked by geieyoung 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Thank you all for the ideas. I really appreciate all the advices... i will tell my friend for sure. Have a great day everyone.
2006-08-08 21:57:07 · update #1
It is very important that your host knows of your allergies, because not only does it allows them to cater for you, but they can warn you to avoid dishes that may not *appear* to be a problem for you but actually contain something (e.g. minced anchovies, oyster sauce, chicken stock, powdered egg) that could harm you. And, yes, offer to take something yourself.
2006-08-08 22:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're allergic to certain foods, it's important that you let people know! I'd be mortified if I had a dinner guest and didn't give them anything they could eat! As a veggie, I find the same thing - it's always sausage rolls or ham sandwiches! And when they do provide veggie food, all the meat eaters get there first and think 'Ooh this is nice' and eat it all before I get the chance to have any! Oh well, there's always the chippie.
2006-08-09 04:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be natural and tell him that you are allergic to sea food, it is your friend and will understand, i think that you should share these things with close people to you familly and friends, and it is a matter of health which is very important, do not take a risk by being shy or else, Go and have fun, party is not only food, but a lot of fun, just don't forget to take something to eat there. Cheers
2006-08-09 04:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by tipie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy. Just pick up the phone and ask them what they are serving, and explain that there are certain foods you can't eat. They will either add something to the menu for you, or ask you to bring your own food.
I'd prefer somebody to tell me they had an allergy before they turned up (with plenty of notice), than sit and eat nothing. I think most people are the same.
2006-08-09 04:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if its a serious health problem then yes tell them the facts diplomatically and tactfully, but however besides these food I'm very sure they will be serving lots of other foods too.
If I was you I would mention it by saying 'what's on the menu for the party?' and then you can go on to explain your allergies etc.
Good luck, Love Seli xxx
2006-08-09 04:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not picky, you are allergic. You didn't chose to have a negative reaction to so many foods, so don't feel guilty. Inform the host of your food allergies and imply that you would gladly bring along a dish that you are able to eat. I'm sure the host will be glad to know of your condition ahead of time, so he/she can accomodate, I would.
2006-08-09 04:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by ilovemyarmyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be totally honest with everyone you know about your food allergies, they sure wouldn't want to harm you now would they, I would much prefer people tell me what they do and don't like as it is as embarrassing for me when I have spent all day preparing meals and they have allergies or dislikes to the food I have cooked, just be very honest and save yourself and your friends the embarrassment of having food placed in front of you that is wrong for you.
2006-08-09 08:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to just be upfront with them ahead of time and tell your friends of your allergies,you would probably do best to bring your own foods when attending somewhere where the foods will not agree with you. I am sure your friends will understand if they are your real friends, you have a right to look after the safety and well-being of your own health and it is no one' s place to challenge that.
2006-08-09 04:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your friend beforehand and tell them about your problem. If you let them know what you are allergic to they will probably prepare something just for you. The same when you visit your other friends and family. If they don't know about your condition they cannot be blamed if they have nothing suitable for you. Best of luck
2006-08-09 04:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's in your best interests to tell them you are allergic to these foods. They may wonder why you aren't eating at their parties.
Just tell them about your allergies. They are very common nowadays, and people should cater for this.
What about the vegetarian option ?
2006-08-09 04:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by stdaveuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋