what i should do if i comes to know about that somebody from the class had a crush on me, how should i react as everybody teases me {i don't have any interest in the guy} can anyone help,the guy is handsome,all girls are dying for him,but he is not of my type.
2006-08-08 21:16:42 · 15 answers · asked by radhika v 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Go out with someone else.
2006-08-09 00:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Seems like if you're not interested, you'ld be disinterested in asking the question. If he's handsome & 'all the girls are dying for him...' why aren't you too? Type? Are you looking for some kinda alien with strange powers? I'd be concerned about your rational & ask what separates his type from you. Do you need help or merely affirmation that you're worthy of his crush? Or he's worthy of your acknowledgement of the reports & your being teased. I'm positive that your dilema will probably will be solved in about 48-72 hours of careful evaluation, a week at the most! Just incorporate a little good judgement & impliment some of the insights you should be able to recognise.
2006-08-09 04:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your usual self.
first you should ask why you are not interested in him. is it because you haven't got to know him enough? are you being too idealistic on what your type should be? or have you already found oout what he's like and there is just no chemistry?
But if he really isn't your type, don't get together with him just because everyone wants him... because that will be just wasting your time and when you are with him, a guy you like might walk you by because you are with someone (who you don't really like.)
I think in this situation.. it is best to just be yourself and keep it cool if he's not chasing you or proposing to you or asking you out. but if he did muster the courage to come up to you to ask... say no in a nice way so he's got some space to u-turn. But if you are not really sure you like him or not... spend some time together~~ maybe you'd like him after all and you guys will be a happy couple!
Just know what you want in a guy ( be true to yourself)
Good luck! :)
2006-08-09 04:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the attention while you have it. In a few years - I know that sounds like a long time, but it's really not - you'd give a whole lot to be where you are now. Free, with your whole future open to you. And what's not to like about this guy, anyway? Maybe he likes you because you aren't chasing him for his good looks and so he doesn't think you're shallow and silly.
2006-08-09 04:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by mai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why i haed school growing up. mean mean kids. anyway my best suggestion is that you have a little chat with him and let him know how you feel. he spunds liek a guy who is a little shy to express his feeling (since everyione else knew before you did) so simply explain to him as to let him down easy. besides, someone telling some one they are good looking but just not yuor type is a great confidence booster for people. they may iscover that you are not the only girl to like.
2006-08-09 04:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, go to bed, and quit worrying about what other people think. It really doesn't matter anyway. All of the people teasing you are jealous and inmature. And most of them are just doing it because they see some other idiot doing it. You know monkey see, monkey do.
2006-08-09 04:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gracious and don't disrespect him...he's not hurting you
be complimented
you really need a comeback for the teasers...if all the girls are dying for hime just say "thanks for the info" or "jealous?" or "only time will tell" or I bet you can come up with one that reduces the teasing but does not hurt his feelings...eventually this crush will be old news and a new whatever will take its place
2006-08-09 10:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as though you are awfully young to be so set in your ways. Even if this guy isn't your usual type, give him a chance. You may find expanding your horizons brings you unexpected opportunities for happiness.
2006-08-09 04:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It important that some one be on Ur type or nor.
if he is really not then say nothing because both of you an nt made good relationship,
2006-08-09 04:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should enjoy the jealousy you are recieving from the other girls. You have some attention they all want. Perhaps you could use it in some way.
2006-08-09 04:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by alsilver007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing is happening with me . all my friends teases me . but i think if he is not liked by u then just ignore all of them and do not worry .
2006-08-09 04:22:55 · answer #11 · answered by mint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋