We were nothing more than casual acquaintances really and I dont know if she ever really knew that I liked her this way. She was the quiet artistic kind of girl who was often considered to be the weird class geek because she didnt really have any friends and liked art/anime soo much. I was the geekish kind of guy who liked to play chess and even started the first official high-school chess club on campus. I started to take the initiative and spoke to her almost at every break since sophomore year. I would usually find her sitting alone during the breaks on the stairs keeping to herself and drawing her anime stuff. I sat closeby this girl in almost every class we shared together. LOL, one day I saw her walking home with her brother I didnt know and I thought he was her new boyfriend so I just broke out in tears. We graduated later this year and I still cant get her out of my mind and my dreams. I regret not telling her my feelings and I need some help getting over this. Any suggestions?
2006-08-08 21:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by Spikester 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like you have a couple of choices my friend. Tell her how you feel or move on.
The deal is this: you will always wonder "what if?" and it may go away or not. But the worst she can say is no. If you step up and say how you feel, you will get closure if she doesn't like you back. But how will she know if you don't tell her. Basically, man up and say something.
The other is the number one rule to easy livin': Let it go. find someone that you feel more comfortable talking to and relating to and go from there. Keep the other girl in your heart as a fond memory, but don't let it dominate your outlook on future possibilites. Trust that you will shed the geek image in time and become a good guy that any girl will consider herself lucky to have.
Take it from The Dude. He's been there and The Dude must abide...
Good luck!
2006-08-08 21:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by The Dude... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan to get over her, you need to let her know what you felt for her. You still have unresolved feelings for her. Try to get in touch with her and see what happens. It sounds like you guys could've been good together. If you really want to get over what you had, you have to be honest about your feelings. Try contacting her and see what happens. Yeah high school's over, and you need to move on, but if you really like her that much then there's still a chance for something to happen between the two of you. Thats up to your heart to decide though. Follow your heart and you can never go wrong. Remember that time does heal all wounds, even if it leaves scars behind from time to time. The only way to get over someone is letting the course of time work its magic and eventually find someone else. Goodluck!
2006-08-08 21:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get in touch with her! It's not like she fell off the planet... Even if she has moved away for school or some such nonsense there is this thing I've heard of called the INTERNET!!! Apparently it allows some people to stay in touch!!! Go for it man, the worst she could do is say no...
then there's always whores & booze like with me...
2006-08-08 21:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ren Hoek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, dude. You should have done something a long time ago. I think the only thing you can do now is just find another girl. Good luck!
2006-08-08 21:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell u want 2 do that.
it is a nice feeling.
keep it throughut ur life.
2006-08-08 21:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why forget about her? keep talking to her. then marry her haha. you guys sound great for each other
2006-08-08 21:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by emoife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋