like i said can a person ever really get over their first true love? iIstill love her and just cant get over her and it makes me soo sad to see her with another guy b/c i know she'd be happier with me and it really hurts that shes with somebody else. shes even said that she was happier with me, but ya for a lot of reasons that neither of us could help we had to break up, and ya i still cant quit thinking about her, i still really love her
2006-08-08 20:48:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romance fades with time; Love does not.
2006-08-11 21:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 65⤊ 0⤋
You can get over your first true love but not totally. Why? It was your first: First in every experiences with regards to love. Somehow with such first love you had the tendency to pour everything which makes it difficult to move on after break-up. Another thing is that, you cannot totally get over her beacause she played a part in your life which paves the way for you to discover your hidden character or potentials as well as the facts about loving. In short, she has a contribution to what you are now.
From my readings: some suggestions are given at least to get over the feeling and move on
1. don't see her
2. don't text or write to her
3. know the person very well (negatives that may dismay you)
But then, if you really really love her....prove her worth to you.
Time can heal all pains and wounds. Let things flow....
Have things for you to be busy....
But still don't forget the good memories you had...forget the pains she caused you....It's the quickest way to heal....Hope you'll get over her in God's time....
2006-08-08 21:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Cessvi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't forget your first love but with the time this love becomes a memory, usually a nice one. but before that why don't you try once more? who knows?
it hurts when you lose your first love and you always think what if...? but the best is to let the time do its best...
when it's over we usually have the tendency to create a perfect image of what has happened and that is why we suffer so much, we thing that we lived a perfect love story and that nothing will ever be the same. in part, it is true, but something better can arrive, you never know. more important is to let it go(if it is really over) and look around you.
2006-08-08 21:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by IRI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you never get over your first true love. It will always be heartbreaking.
But everyone learns to deal with it.
How long has it been since you broke up? It should take you three months before the pain is bearable again. If it's been longer than that, maybe you should see a counselor.
2006-08-08 20:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ashleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cannot on the fact that you gave her your heart not just your love and it will stick with you for a long time especially when you see eye to eye . then all the feelings come rushing back and it was like you were never apart, but if i were you i would definitly have a talk with her and try doing what you can to get her back now before it is to late,like her getting married and having kids with someone else.
2006-08-08 20:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats a spark that can always be relite. But some things are just better left alone.Follow your heart . But listen to your head. they wont lie and you will be much happier.
2006-08-08 20:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still love anyone I've ever been really in love with. But I move on with my life just keeping them in a special place in my heart.
2006-08-08 20:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're extremely in love, you will experience certainly one of these swelling of emotions which you already know no it is easy to comprehend different than for that guy or woman you're sharing the affection with. it is likewise common to tell love from infatuation because of the fact in case you're infatuated with somebody, you will sort of see some obvious holes interior the relationship yet you will forget approximately it. once you're extremely in love, that guy or woman you're in love with is proper and you forget approximately all his/her flaws. and of direction i've got self belief in romantic love. All loves commence out romantic. Then over the years, it starts off to mellow down somewhat, till you're the two so previous which you would be able to now no longer have intercourse or something, yet in basic terms proportion a mutual dependency and favoritism in direction of one yet another. And sure, love is a great deal motivated by applying emotion. And sure, I surely have been in love formerly. while i substitute into with him, i substitute into excited to nonetheless see him universal, greater in a non-sexual way. the guy you're in love with is your ultimate chum, whom you are able to sell off your burden to and he does the reminiscent of you. we'd have enjoyed to spend time with one yet another each and all of the time and while we did no longer, we'd continually think of roughly one yet another. and we'd seek advice from anybody who might pay attention approximately how happy we've been. regrettably, inspite of the undeniable fact that the relationship has ended, i haven't long undergone sooner or later without questioning how he's doing, and that i'm useful he's doing the comparable as properly. i'm over him, yet once you have been in love with somebody, you won't be able to help yet nonetheless care approximately them. So no longer purely is love super, it additionally hurts while that is over.
2016-11-04 04:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get over her just try to get on with life you need to focus on something else
2006-08-08 21:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you ever get over your 1st love but you must at least put it behind you
2006-08-08 20:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still has feelings for you what's stopping you from being together now?
2006-08-08 20:54:42 · answer #11 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋