i met how should i stop cuting myself not how should i cut myself?

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i met how should i stop cuting myself not how should i cut myself

Answer 1

get rid of the razors first...then find another release besides pain. mines music, my gf's is dance, my other friends is tae kwon do...just find something else to release your emotions and distract you from life (maybe drawing too). I know theres no way for you to really tell that im not a frieky weirdo on the internet or whatever, but if youll trust me, i might be able to help you by talking to you online. I helped 3 of my friends before, and one person that i met online, so i hope i can help you. Good luck with it either way, and just remember that you need to find another non harmful way to release your anger/sadness/pain/whatever. : /

(if you do decide to try talking to me, my email is [e-mail], email me and ill give you my aim or something...i dont know...whatever...if you want proof that i am who i say i am, tell me to write a number or something on some paper, and take a picture with it, and ill do it...cuz i know there are some weird people out there and its hard to tell whos who)

Answer 2

Get rid of all the things you use to cut. Get rid of the big bracelets or other things you use to cover up. Tell a friend you really trust that you've been doing this and you want to stop. Have an arrangement when if you feel like cutting you will call that person to talk instead. get a stress ball which you can squeeze.
It might help if you took what ever you use to cut when you feel like it and cut up an old towel or a sheet or some thing else that cuts easily, After you see what it can do it you won't want that to happen to you. This doesn't work for every one though.

Celebrate by going out and buying some cute tank tops.
I've been there and I'm here if you want to talk anonymously

Answer 3

Hi how are you,

From your question above, I can I figure that you are excited in suicide.
U don’t know how to stop cutting yourself and you don’t know how to cut you self.
To make a direct answer… you don’t have to worried about answer for you second question (How to cut yourself) If u able to solve the first question (how to stop cutting your self) because the second question will automatically will be solve from the 1st one.

The question is why you must cut your self when you are already born by cutting yourself.

They is many possible reason why you want to cut yourself…can be job problem, home outside and many different problem.

Have you ever asked yourself the real problem of yours is your life style? That is the basic fundamental why people can get problems. If the life style match to the environment so there won’t be any problem. Sometimes you can see some people don’t have problem at all…why? Be cause they have flexible lifestyle. I think I’m writing too much. So I just stop here. If you solve your lifestyle it solve you problem if u solve you problem they won’t be any question in how to cut myself and so on.

So don’t losses hope k
Good luck
Byeee

Answer 4

You must talk to a professional about this but whilst you wait to see someone try this. Next time you want to cut yourself get some ice from the freezer and hold it very tightly in both hands. The pain that you get from the ice overrides the need to cut. This does work because I've tried it myself. I did some interviews with a researcher about self-harm and the psychiatrist that run the study said that we have chemicals that naturally occur in our brains when we harm ourselves and they give us a brief surge or a small high and that in itself can become addictive. I must admit I do feel better for a short time when I've done it. I'm trying to stop and some times I do better than others. Do try the ice thing though, it's well worth a try. x

Answer 5

Firstly , why are you cutting yrself ? there must be a reason for that to happen ..I dont know what is the problem but you need to tackle the root of the problem and seek help from professionals ...

In singapore where I live .. teenages cut themselves not because they are facing problems or having depression ..they cut themselves because they think is a cool thing to do ! .The worst part is looking at their arm n seeing the scars that will never heal ! .I hope u r not doing that !

Cutting one self is not a cure to any problem u r facing ..it will only make matter worst .....u r loosing yrself .....n it is not worth doing so ....

Please understand that there are ppl around you that till care and love for u n their heart will ache if u keeping doing it ......

Life is too precious, life has soo much more for you to live on then just cutting yrself, life has soo much to offer soo much to do ...

Get a hold yrself ! U can STOP THIS IF U WANT TO!

Take care :)

Answer 6

Although there are many folks with good intentions, most people that suffer from this type of self mutilation need professional help. Tell someone you trust, by all means, but find a way to seek a professional therapist that has experience in this and go as often as they say you need to.
If it is very severe, you may need some inpatient help first.

There are very many reasons why people hurt themselves in this way, and I won't go into it here...but no matter what the reason or underlying issue, therapy is a good place to start.

Good luck.

Answer 7

You need to forgive yourself, There is something deep inside your thoughts that is not right. It could be shame, Guilt, rejection, and you need to give all that pain away to Jesus. If you call out to Him and ask Him to help you to stop and forgive yourself, then you will stop cutting. You also need to talk to someone that can be there for you while you got through this process. It's something that you need to "choose " NOT to do, when you want to. Just say NO. I love myself too much to keep this up. It will be good you'll see. ;)

Answer 8

you might be angry and not clearly expressed so you cut yourself.define your true feeling and try to look for better approach to heal it gradually.i heard someone using drugs usually do it frequently.so if you have the same status,refrain from using illegal drugs or lessen the intake of medicinal drugs that you might be using right now.it might have side effects you are not aware affecting your moods.OK at this time think you are angry with trees and cut the trees instead of yourself!but plant later cause we need the trees!try to consult a prof.doctor that deals with behavioral problems.good day and GOD bless!

Answer 9

ok i feel for you i was bad about doing that at one time. i no how it feels and it is hard to stop i will not lie to you it is very hard. but sometimes talking to someone can help . but the one thing is you have to found something that will replace what cutting did you for . for me it has been talking , writing, playing rock music very loud , there is alot of way that i deal with it. you will just have to found yours. i hope this will help you i really do. and it you ever need someone to talk to about the pain or anything you can write me at [e-mail] good luck

Answer 10

Stop fooling around with sharp objects.