how 2 b a good flirt??

Question

i suck at flirting and i really really want to get a bf!!

Answer 1

CHECK OUT amazon.com FOR BOOKS! THEIR USED BOOKS START AT UNDER $1. THEY HAVE ALOT OF THEM ABOUT FLIRTING AND HOW TO ATTRACT MEN! IN FACT, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A CREDIT CARD TO ORDER ONE, GO TO THE LIBRARY! THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF BOOKS ON HOW TO FIND A BOYFRIEND.

Answer 2

Flirting is largely the art of asking some open-ended questions, and being a good listener for the responses. Eye contact is always good, and injecting a bit of humour is always appreciated.
Most important, though, is to be yourself; don't try to pretend to be someone else, it'll just backfire and make the situation worse when they realize you were just pretending. The point of flirting is to give the other person a opening to find out more about you, if they're interested, not to try to pretend to be someone or something else. And above all else, relax and try to have fun--if you're nervous or tense, they'll pick up on that, and will think you don't really like them, and are looking for an excuse to slip away, first moment you can. It's really hard to flirt when you're not having fun yourself--don't try to force it, if you aren't feeling like it, it's better to just hang back a bit, and take a few deep breaths to calm down, and walk around a bit. If you feel better, you can come back and try again; but if not, don't get upset, there will always be other opportunities.
Good luck with it!

Answer 3

act like ur not even flirting. u know, the way u look at the person, the way u smile at the person..it's called game! lol! But just act like it's a natural thing. like that's ur personality n it has always been apart of u since "ion know when." n if they get all excited asking if ur flirting with them, look at them like u really have no idea what they're talking about (don't smirk because that'll b giving it away) just be like "huh, what on earth r u talkin about man..i'm just makin conversation, dat's all.) n as u continue, n u know they start doin that stupid nervous chuckle n stuff, u know u got him. Dat's all flirtin is..basically game..it takes practice, but u'll get it..heheheheh.

Answer 4

Dress nice, not slu.tty or you will attract the wrong sort. Have eye contact that lasts a split second longer than usual, smile a lot, be personally happy with yourself and make the environment one that you are happy with..

example, if you at a bar with a friend...

Sit straight, when you laugh tilt your head upwards (people who do this are confident, men find that sexy), if you smoke, blow it upwards and casual.

Only talk about funny things with who ever you are sitting with, that way guys will see you're fun and will want to talk to you. if any guy looks at you, smile at him and think this "you are a yummy peice of meat, I could have you if I wanted you"..

sounds cheesy, I know, I am very good at this, I always have tonnes of guys hitting on me where ever I go... this works.. some of my girls are very very pretty but dont get guys...

it all comes down to attitude... Seriously...

once he talks to you, seem interested, but do not hang off his everyword or he will think you are needy...

every guy that stares at you should be looked at as potential meat. Unless he is real hideous or creepy...

Practice it all the time, walking to the store, look at guys in cars, on bikes, walking... all of them.. and think "you are a yummy peice of meat, I could have you if I wanted you".. once you get into the habit it will come to you easily...

Practice makes perfect...

Answer 5

You can just be simple as true as yourself. That's simple enough to do, no hassles of flirting and the perfect place to get a good boyfriend is webdate*com.

Answer 6

haha let me try. eye contact while smiling unless you feel a romantic moment, touching, cute giggling, excitement when you see them, hugs. be careful. the second you feel a guy likes you slightly lay off flirting with others...but not too much. you don't want to seem like you are too easy or the guy will lose interest.

Answer 7

there's nothing wrong with flirting.here it goes
know what u are good at,look yo self in the mirror,smile in a sexy way to the mirror
always be confident,look men in the eyes for a while the look some where else,i can go on & on but the secret is always feel sexy

Answer 8

Here is a good starter for you: Smile. Be approachable. Relax. Open up. Go up to guys and talk to them. We love it when women talk to us. Laugh. Don't be afraid to touch us on the arm or hand. Most of all, don't take all seriously.

Answer 9

be your self, dont try and before someone your not because they can tell when your being fake. you dont need to be a good flirt to get a guy.

Answer 10

Tear your top off,beat your chest like Tarzan.At least you will get some kind of reaction