Would you thow it your son/daughter's face everytime they were disobedient, by telling them " you were THIS close, you little sonufabitch!!! This close!!!!"
2006-08-08 19:43:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If this was your experince I think it would be very difficult for you to have a relationship with a woman and parenting would be painful....I would have to grieve my lost childhood....we had a home invasion when I was 3 and my mother did not recover, my father thought she left him...and let us stay alone in the house...and well anyway he never put it all together...we grew up without her...now that I am older and learning about post traumatic stress disorder I am calling her where she is taken care of...Every story is different...every story of abuse...the abusers always have their own story as well ... it sounds like your mother must have a story to tell you if this is at all the case give her the opportunity to tell it and beg your forgiveness...being human often sucks... being an adult doesn't always mean leaving our hurting child behind...but taking him by the hand and not letting anything like that happen to him again....these hurtful things are part of who we are... when we look at children because of where we come from we can see sometimes what others can't ...it's a mixed bag.I love you ,you are a good boy and deserved to be fiercely loved and protected. I will always love you sweetheart. You are my boy. That is what you deserved to hear.
2006-08-08 20:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I'm so sorry your parent(s) did that to you. Are you getting any counseling for the mental abuse imposed on you? You poor guy! Wow. I never thought I'd come across a person who was so verbally abused. I bet there were many times that you wished you had been aborted, just so you wouldn't have to face your abusive parents. Do you feel still like you wish you were aborted? I could understand why you would, don't feel ashamed. The shame associated with verbal abuse is normal, don't worry. You're OK, Jonny. Things will get better when you get the help that you so obviously need. I really-really hope that you find the healing that you need, that you find peace in your life and for the love of Pete, don't have children until you've gone thru extensive psychotherapy. Good luck and good mental healing.
2006-08-09 03:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... no. But, actually, if that was posted in Polls and Surveys or Jokes and Riddles, it would've been a bit funnier. Otherwise, it's kind of a serious subject to start a joke with.
Ok, Madge needs glasses. And how could all these people take that so seriously! AARRGGHH! Get a life people.
2006-08-09 02:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ......... in a word NO !! this is something that they have the issue and this must hurt like hell this person needs telling or needs a shock response fom you ,and i have a feeling that it could be youre mother that we are talking about ,as a shock response for her i'd be very tempted to react with the words like ...........well you would have done me a favour ,now i know that sounds really horrible but she or he needs a real good shock they are seeing the hurt when they say it to you so react and do it quickly i can bet with a response like that a few times they wont be saying this to you many more times ,you sound a great human being and they should be proud of you and not throw this type of crap about .....you take care and good luck x
2006-08-09 02:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha!
I almost aborted my son. I had two abortions in the past, and didn't want a third. I just felt like I wanted and needed a child in my life despite my young age. I now love my son and would never use that against him.
2006-08-09 04:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you decided against it you made the right decision. Only an evil father or mother would say those things to a child. How cruel that would be.
2006-08-09 02:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your serious I wouldn't even dare say that to my boys as bad as they are....
I did come close to doing that and once he was born I was upset at myself for coming so close to stopping someone so beautiful and sweet be born. I love my children and I don't think that's somethin any mother at all should say.
2006-08-09 13:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not,nor would any LOVING parent.However,since being a parent is completely unregulated(whether it should be is another question)you can have situations like that of one serial killer whose female parent--I deliberately don't use the word "mother"--forced him to watch her have sex with various men and forced him to have sex with animals,etc.The killer was Henry Lee Lucas.
2006-08-09 03:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by iguanarama42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes yes i would. But then again i wouldn't ever put myself into a situation where i had a child to scream that at.
2006-08-09 12:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by meowsuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't deserved to be called parents. This is not child's fault, if they made mistakes. They should be a shamed.
2006-08-09 03:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋