I think Arranged marriage with love is gud.
2006-08-08 19:44:43
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answered by Swetha N 1
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The idea of an arranged marriage goes totally against the grain of our culture, there is no doubt about that, and I am NOT an advocate of it.
On the other hand, there are arguments in favor and the proof is the great number of arranged marriages that are a success in Asian countries like India.
One big advantage is that not only "love", but other factors and that are important in the success of a marriage, get to be taken into account as well. There are many such factors, too many to enumerate, so let me take a general approach.
"Love is blind" is a well known expression and it is too often true. People who are in love, most of the times, don't take into account any other important factors, such as character, and religious, social and educational compatibility, to name a few. Economic differences lie at the root of many marriage failures. Think about the proverbial "gold digger", who is after money under the guise of love. All these factors account for a high number of marriage failures and miserable divorces. Outsiders - like parents or even a marriage broker - are better able to see and avoid them.
I do not have any scientific figures, but I remember having seen TV programs on this theme and many of the people who were interviewed and who had their marriage arranged, were very positive about it. It seems that such couples learn to love and appreciate each other and that they work harder on it. Even young people said that in principal they would not be against an arranged marriage.
One final thought. In our modern times, an arranged marriage is not a forced marriage anymore. The "candidates" can opt out, but - unbelievably to us Westerners - they don't do so very often.
I repeat, personally I am not for arranged marriages. I just wanted to bring up some arguments in favor, for you to evaluate.
2006-08-09 03:07:39
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answered by Hi y´all ! 6
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Not all arranged marriage is without love. Important thing is to love the one you marry. Then the marriage will survive and that's real "gud"!!!
2006-08-09 05:25:43
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answered by panic-over-nothin 2
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If you mean "good" by "gud" then marrying someone because you love them is the only reason you should marry someone. Some cultures don't think so and that's their prerogative but marriage is about love and commitment and how can you love someone and commit yourself to them if you just met them, and you're being forced into it
2006-08-09 02:31:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Niether!
First do a Love Marriage and then an Arranged one and find out!
2006-08-09 03:27:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Scoo as gud! Not skippy class as gud! Especially those hard to handle English and Grammar classes!
And to answer your poorly typed question, only love!!!!!
2006-08-09 02:30:37
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answered by flyingbumblebee 5
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This all depends on the culture & society you are living-in, I don't know where you from, but in most asian countries arranged merriage is preferred.
The saying is "never marry a person you love but instead love a person you marry"
2006-08-09 04:27:18
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answered by I-Rahi 3
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love maches tend to work out better.
arrainged marriage is akin to sanctioned rape.
don't do it. a forced relationship without love is hell. to be quite frank. it's like being inslaved to somebody for sex.
assuming you're the gal...
at any rate... don't do arrainged marriage unless you know the guy you're arrainged to marry and you're 1) ok with that 2) happy about that 3) love the guy.
that's all I have to say.
2006-08-09 02:32:40
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answered by The greatest and the best. 5
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in my opinion love marriage is the best... but if your faith has anything to do with arranged marriage then that's what you got
2006-08-09 07:08:19
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answered by pixie 3
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Arrange marriage is the BEST.coz if u've love marriageand after it u find ur hubby/wife cheating u,u can't tell it to ur parents ur relatives,ur freinds as u'd chosen him/her.but there is no such problem in arrange marriage.parents"ll support u if u'd such problem ever in ur life.
2006-08-09 02:34:22
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answered by Coolgal 2
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