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2006-08-08 19:24:06 · 40 answers · asked by I Keep It Real 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My uncle did it. He never had sex and never had a girlfriend, but hes not gay either and he is in his 60s.

2006-08-08 19:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11 7

if you're doing that merely to prepare a level then i believe you're doing your self a good disservice. you do not favor to flow by ability of your total existence without experiencing the affection of yet another man or woman, no matter if it being emotional or actual. no man or woman 10 years from now is going to say "oh he proved me incorrect" the in straightforward words man or woman who will loose will be you. it style of feels that you're very insecure with the bare style, that's something you should conquer. sex is a desirable ingredient if you're experiencing it with someone you want. certain human beings do take income of it and make it seem as if something dirty, besides the undeniable fact that that's not continuously like that. once you've under no circumstances experienced it, then how could you recognize that it truly is a sinful and dirty act? sex is a present that God has given a husband and spouse, that is how the miracle of existence occurs. how will you call that sinful? a desirable little infant is further into the international from sex. it truly is in straightforward words sinful at the same time as one takes income of the different. don't be so insecure, if someone delivers a supplement then take it, do not turn it down. merely because you've scars on your back does no longer make you grotesque. Your recommendations-set is what's making you grotesque, no longer your visual attraction. it style of sounds like you've some underlying themes you should solve with your self, per chance it truly is time to work out a therapist. I desire you success, God bless.

2016-11-23 17:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can't miss what you never had in the first place......but since i have experienced sex, dating, kissing, marriage, etc......
It would be completely depressing to live without it. I love having someone to look forward to seeing and spending my time with. It's nice to have a person i can trust with all of my faults and secrets, I love waking up next to my husband and feeling him beside me when I sleep. I think every human being wants to be loved, touched etc. Life just wouldn't be quite as fulfilling without that kind of deep companionship.

2006-08-08 19:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by S 3 · 0 0

I have so far. Sure, it s incredibly lonely. You get horrible nightmares. You get misunderstood as a creep for watching people do things as simple as cuddlings as the idea is so foreign. But you re just looking, wondering about the grass on the other side. Watching your peers having their second kids and you wonder why no one wanted a deep connection.
I kinda just came too the conclution I m too romantic. I spend all this time watching it, (movies, tv shows, etc). I m a full on adult. I only got teased by girls. Never kept them around because it s kinda all I talk about. You live life without deep connections but see others doing it so easy. It s really ... painful honestly. I m a man, so I gotta bottle a lot of things in side. I live by high morals so I wont touch unless she lets me put a ring on her. But with me, there just, is no one.
Even if I did see someone I like, I just start acting nervous. Including intense shivering, chest pain, difficult breathing, words litterally not coming out as I can only gasp for air.
Back when I was a kid, I used to think of myself to be a lot like Beast Boy from DC comic s Teen Titans. I get so emotionally invested in someone, but it turns out they never liked you. More often then not the girls are just waiting to hurt you. I fully know that s not the case for all women. Just the ones I sadly encounter.
Sometimes, you just wanna know what it s like to have legitment support. I don t even have a family to support me. But I get by, I keep going with a smile on my face and never let people see how much pain is really in my heart. I make stupid jokes in public, I laugh, keep a big grin on my face. There s nothing easy about it. But if I don t keep fighting. If I don t keep going, some day I ll encounter someone lonlier then me and I would not be prepared. I can t take that risk.
You can live alone. But it s hell. It s a habbit hard to break. Sometimes you get so lost in your own thoughts you don t even sleep for weeks. You just keep thinking with your mind racing about why it needs to be this way. Why this is your destiny. Sometimes you get headaches from lack of sleep and end up throwing up. But if you do sleep you just get nightmares. Happy nightmares, the worst kind, the kind where you feel a sense of joy and you get your heart s desires only to wake up and loose it every morning.
I wouldn t wish thie life on anyone. Don t be like me. Go out, break air, enjoy the sun. Feel those deep connections we all long for. Live life to the fullest, it s the only chance you get. Never become an INFP, never have a hero complex, never be a romantic. Then you will be fine.

2016-05-23 22:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Emo 1 · 0 0

Impossible to answer since I've already had those things, but I guess it's possible if I'd never ever had them and if I were away from the world like in a nunnery.

2006-08-08 19:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0 0

Possibly...if you don't make yourself available to have a gf/bf/dated/sex/kiss anyone!

2006-08-08 19:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by jerzeygirl24 1 · 0 0

Anyone living a celebate life can easily never even consider
the thought and if they did their committment of the celibacy life
will prohibit them.

2006-08-08 19:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1 0

I only can't stand without having b/f but I don't like sex.

2006-08-08 19:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0 0

it's not that hard I've never had a boyfriend or any of that stuff and I'm 13 it does get lone some but yeah I could do it.

2006-08-08 19:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I was prepared to. I was 22 and thought I'd never be able to maintain a serious relationship. So I was pretty much preparing myself to live my life alone...with lots of drinking, and drugs.
But now I found someone, and its great.

2006-08-08 19:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Un Sandpiper 2 · 0 1

Of course not. Humans are very social and need all of the above.

2006-08-08 19:26:28 · answer #11 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0 1

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