I'm confused. For some reason, I want to talk about how I feel about this guy. But I can't, I know that he knows, but he doesn't know the whole story. Taking things slow is a must for me. But I want to "talk" to him. It's tearing me up inside. I've been listening to MarioVasquez's "Gallery". I love that song, maybe that's why I feel this way all of a sudden. I feel my heart beating again, and it scares me. People who've had they're heartbroken understnads what I'm saying. I need some guidence from someone that's been in this situation (a biased opinion). Please contact me, I really need someone's help on this. It's scaring me the way I feel...How do I go about this? I can't hint around it anymore... The "just tell him" method never works for me. But he is different. I can't even sleep at night now. I'm up all hours because this crap is really bugging me... email me, contact me on here or message me on Yahoo! Instant Messanger:
evil_lil_deemer420692006@yahoo.com
please.. thank you
2006-08-08 19:21:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not what you mean, and I still have to say, "Just tell him." My whole life turned around after meeting the woman of my dreams, and we are married now.
2006-08-08 19:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is to "just tell him," but that's really the only way to do it. Believe me, you can't be clear by beating around the bush and hinting here and there. None of us pick up on subtlties as well as we think we do. If you talk to him over a messenger program, I would try that. It'll be easier for you to get your words out when you have a little time to think about them and when you're not nervous about telling him face to face. If you have to, write down what you want to say before hand, so you can just look at what you want to say and type it. And if he can't take what you're telling him, he's not the right guy. Good luck.
2006-08-09 02:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always ask yourself, If I live to be a wrinkled old lady, will I regret not doing (or doing) this? Love hurts sometimes, life hurts sometimes, but only throught the moments of pain and sadness can we truly recognize the joys and pleasures. You only go around once, I hesitated in my youth and lost the greatest love of my life. It hurt so bad for years, but then I started doing things for me and found another who completes my life. Life is meant to be lived, live it.
2006-08-09 02:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by taelech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey all I can say, if he feels the same way you do, it will work out just fine, but if he doesn't better leave it all alone...before your love will just be a one sided situation....but let the guys chase you a Lady should never chase a man...........Never, cause then he will never Respect you....
2006-08-09 02:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to love and lose then to never love again (however that goes)
You can do it,if you don't feel comfortable telling him face to face buy him a cute card and write h ow you feel in it
2006-08-09 02:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Talk to him. Take your time. I seem to stumble in my words when it comes from the heart.
2006-08-09 02:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanted you could try and see if one of your chick friends could go and talk to them for you and tell them that you like him. or you could just write him a note or something.
2006-08-09 02:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the Q? whats up with the confed flag?
2006-08-09 02:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by j@mE$ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋