2006-08-08 18:56:21 · 23 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can I sen this somewhere else
2006-08-08 19:02:47 · update #1
what do you mean should you feel like the other woman. Unfortunately, you are the other woman. You just didn't know it. He has been horribly disrepectful to you. Dump him. Tell his wife. Move on. but make sure you tell his wife becasue hes a dog and deserves to loose both of you.
2006-08-16 04:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Medical Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, you dated a married man for 4 years and you just found out? No offense, but you really should have gotten a clue a long time ago. Did he ever invite you to his house? Were you allowed to call his home? Did you have to meet at your place or at a hotel room? If you answered no, no, and yes to the following questions, that should have been a strong sign that you are the other woman and that he could be married.
Here is your chance to save face. Dump him now. Not tomorrow. Now! Last thing you want in your life is to be pu$$y on the side. Unless of course that is what you want. LOL
2006-08-08 19:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume he lied to you, claimed he was single, and (even though I'm having to stretch to believe this) you never, ever heard or saw anything that made you suspect that he was married. If that's the case, no, you shouldn't feel like "the other woman" for your past relationship with him. You should feel hurt and angry at being deceived, but not like you were at fault.
However, if you choose to continue your relationship with him you should definitely feel like "the other woman" with all that that implies about being party to hurting an innocent human being, his wife.
Free advice: get the hell away from this guy. At a minimum he's a lying cheat, and if he's willing to cheat on his wife and lie to you, what else is he willing to pull? How can you even be sure you're the only one he's cheating on his wife with? Or that if, say, he left his wife and married you, he'd be faithful to you?
More free advice: go in and get tested for the full range of STDs.
2006-08-08 19:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by IrritableMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what you should feel like, you are the other woman. Leave him alone he's not worth your time since he lied about it. Let someone else be the other woman. If you stay with him you deserve everything that comes with that. Including all the heart ache and drama. Karma is something you don't want to play with. So now that you know move on. Don't be a home wrecking whore.
2006-08-08 19:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are the "other" woman and not his wife. If something happens to him you have no say whatsoever. No matter if he even treats you like you are number one you will not be where it really counts. If you trully meant that much to him then he would pull the ring off her finger and put it on yours legally. Even if he divorced her and ended up with you if he don't marry you then there will always be the thought in your mind that he loved "her" enough to marry her and not you. You better wise up fast. He is just useing you.
2006-08-16 11:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to believe it took you 4 yrs. to find out? Many things happening in those 4 yrs. wud have indicated he's not available. Don't think you want to feel like "the other woman". I'd kick the scum out ASAP n am sure you deserve better
2006-08-08 19:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you date someone for 4 yrs and not be able to tell that something's up with them?? there's always signs that a man's married. especially after that long. and yes you are the other woman. he's having his cake and eating it too. he's not going to leave the comfort of his marriage to be with you.
2006-08-16 15:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by shannon p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't know he was married then you shouldn't feel like the other woman because you didn't help him to deceive his wife. You are a victim in all this.
2006-08-16 18:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not talk to him any more and write a letter to his wife and tell her what happen cause she has teh right to know just put your self in her shoes which you can see how he made you fell well his wife deserves the right to know as well
2006-08-08 19:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I hate to say it but you are the other woman. If he haven't left his wife now he probably never will
2006-08-16 09:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋