My significant other has 2 grown children 25 and 27 yrs old. Since we met they have rotated moving in and out of his house with their spouses and kids. What in the heck is going on here. His daughter moved out and his son was there within 8 weeks. Its like a revolving door there.
He thinks he is supporting his children. I think he is teaching them to be irresponsible. These kids have been moving in and out for the last 5 years. Does a person like this have issues with co depencency. He gets all mad because my bills are a lot less than his. I live 2 blocks away and I dont let my kids move in and out all the time.
I can tell he is angry because I refuse to go to his house when his adult kids are hanging out. I feel wierd. Should I just join in and play stupid, or is he too hillbilly?
2006-08-08 18:51:20 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love him alot i would speak to him about it and use this phrase "honey i wouldnt mind so much if it was an emergency but to me it seems as if your children may be a little irresponsible and that you might be enabling it is there a way we can work on this and work with them on it too?" if he says yes he agrees with you i would work it out however if he acts like a jerk and says dont worry about me and my kids then i would let him go and when he learns his lesson and realizes what he lost hell be back
2006-08-08 19:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋