I don't want to be sucked into another long term relationship just yet, i just wanna meet someone i can have fun with. My friend (she) is always telling me there are alot of girls out there who think the same way... so where are they, and how do i pick them out?
2006-08-08 18:21:51 · 5 answers · asked by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dammit, I almost broke up with my boyfriend today and If I saw this I would have lol jk
You have to look in the right crowd, for one thing. Many girls don't approve of that sort of relationship. And others may find themselves in one but don't look for one. I think it logical to assume that those of less sexually oppressive backgrounds and lifestyles are more likely to accept "friends with benefits."
My boyfriend doesn't approve of that sort of thing. It would be a little easier to break up with him in fact if I could still enjoy the killer sex. We talked and I decided to stay with him... but he's from a very sexually-oppressed background (Muslim India) and though he's atheist, he still has so many Muslim ideals ingrained and he doesn't even realize it... It's frustrating. So there's my source. I suggest looking for Penn and Teller fans lol gosh I love that show...
2006-08-08 20:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A little story about friends with benefits. IT IS NOT WORTH IT!! I had a friend with benefits o about 5 years ago and our 4 year old daughter has changed our lives but it is really hard. There is an emotional attachment that you share with that person and it has potential to ruin a great friendship. I know for me it took me a long time to get past the idea that our happening was nothing short of a very very big surprise. i guess what i am trying to say in more words then i have to, really think about it first. I have a friend that i have been friends with my whole life and we thought about it once and came to the conclusion relationships come and go BUT a FRIEND is there for a life time. Don't turn that FRIEND in for a one night stand or a cheap date you will regret it later on.
2006-08-09 01:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend with benefits does not really exist....it is something some guy made up and some girl was stupid enough to go along with because she would rather have sex with him and be "friends" than not be around him at all....one person will always end up hurt...it just caught on because we live in a world where practically anything goes
2006-08-09 01:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by rabecky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked this friend out? For friendship sake. Who are you looking for. Maybe whoever you are looking for is right under your nose. think about it. that is if she is not married and not tied up with one person.
2006-08-09 01:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by tebikeiti2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real man and get married. Don't be a slu+.
2006-08-09 01:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by GTO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋