Im 22 and have sex. I have only been with 2 people who i loved. Ive never had an internal orgasm during sex. Ive heard as you get older it gets better, is that true?
2006-08-08 18:17:58 · 26 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it does. Many women don't orgasm properly until their late 20s.
Age and experience do help. You can also help things along by regularly masturbating yourself to orgasm, so that you know what you like.
As you get older, you also feel more confident to tell your partner what you like, and have the experience to do it in a non-desperate, non-bossy way.
If you are with a man your own age, they also become more experienced and more considerate lovers with time. Young guys can sometimes be a little impatient in their enthusiasm.
I also found that being in a steady, committed relationship gave me the security I needed to feel completely comfortable in bed.
Lots to look forward to!
2006-08-08 18:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sex gets better when you get older but it is kind of deceiving. A better way to put it is , sex gets better with time. The more you have sex the more you will be intouch of what you really want. You will find that it is easier to know what you don't like. Once you know your bounderies you tend to get more confident. All that time passed and yes you are older by then. It is just with some people it takes years and years while others are months. Have fun and good luck.
2006-08-09 01:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wingman007007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this its not that the sex gets better when you get older. Its that at around 28 29 30 guys finally figure it out and damn it changes a womens life trust me. the women I have been with the last few years are like holy **** doesn't matter their age 20 21 they are like that was soooooooooo good. Its all about the guy knowing what to do.
2006-08-09 01:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for a woman, but I believe as a woman gets older she knows all the spots on her body that makes her feel great, and . . . she is not afraid to tell her lover where they are, how they're feeling at the moment, and where he should be to maximize her pleasure.
From the man's perspective, as he ages he listens more to what she is telling him, reacts to her reactions, takes everything from foreplay to climax real s-l-o-w, kisses her good night, and then rolls over a goes to sleep to repeat the process in the morning.
2006-08-09 01:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately - as you get alittle older and a little more experienced, you will come to be comfortable with who you are in the bedroom and what you like and don't like - when you're young, sex is just something you think you have to do because you can - as you get older, you can settle in and be comfortable and that's what makes sex so much better - it's the fact that you actually are in touch with your sexuality and can allow you partner to pleasure you and for you to pleasure them without any trepidation - good luck
2006-08-09 01:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does. assuming that you are a female I was like 24 and 25 before i ever experienced an orgasm. You have to really let yourself and there may be an underlying issue for you if you still can't. I know for me i had to learn to be able to let myself "go" before i was able to reach orgasm. Think to your self what are you afraid of and be able to jump past that hurdle and you will be able to peak in no time.
2006-08-09 01:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indubitably.
2006-08-09 01:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes awhile to enjoy it more.. i think that pleasure comes with experience... and with being more relaxed and comfortable having sex. also, with practice, you learn what feels good for you. it took me a few years and a little experience to figure it out and have my first real orgasm. you'll get there.
2006-08-09 01:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by alice k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because u learn more about ur body sexually...as u get older u kind of figure what gets u going!!!
2006-08-09 16:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Juicy Mrz. Brown*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does. let's be honest many young people have sex just because they can. most don't know what they are doing. as you get older you know what it is you like and you know how to get it.you learn that it is quality not quantity that counts.
2006-08-09 01:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋