I like this boy I've been friends with for a long time but I don't know if he likes me as more than just a very good friend. I keep seeing signs that I "think" might mean he likes me too but I'm not for for sure. I want to tell him but I really hate rejection and I think it might damage our friendship if I tell him I like him and he doesn't like me so what should I do??? Please If you have a rude comment or something negative to say please keep it to yourself because you are immauture and not helping me at all.
2006-08-08 18:07:21 · 3 answers · asked by Kimmyta Brown (My altar ego) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First things first, get over your fear of rejection. Besides, you'll never know if you don't ask him. If your friendship is really that deep, then nothing will ever alter that. Go for it! Let him know what's good. If you need more help, then feel free to send me a message and I'll do what I can.
2006-08-08 18:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to him and explain to him how you feel, and tell him if he doesn't feel the same way that you don't want it to ruin your friendship because you value that also..Let him know that you won't be hurt by it...then go home and cry your eyes out and get it out of your system, because if he thinks you will be crushed by his rejection than he might feel weird about continuing his friendship with you...It's better to have him still be your friend than to have nothing at all.
2006-08-08 18:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by buttapecan19702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just come out and tell him your true feelings and if he's your "real" friend, he'll understand if even he doesn't feel the same way. Good Luck in whatever you choose to do!
2006-08-08 18:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by socasoccer@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋