2006-08-08 18:02:43 · 14 answers · asked by pushuda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think if its important to you then you should.If your parents mean that much to you then you should but would it make a difference to you.
2006-08-11 14:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by lonelyforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you underage? Is your boyfriend a good guy? I don't know the story...but Yes I would want my parents blessings before I was married. you may be mad at them for some reason now..but If you get married without them you will regret it in the end. They love you and if their not giving their blessing there has to be a reason for it...think about it
2006-08-09 01:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by wizegirl_70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is rather old fashioned to ask for their blessings. Ultimately your marriage is exactly that ... yours. It is not their marriage and they should accept your decision whatever the case.
What is the point of it anyway? What if they say no? If you have made the decision to get married, will you seriously not get married just because your parents don't give you their blessing?
2006-08-09 07:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it's important to you to get your parent's blessing. If you would like to ask for it because it will make you feel good about yourself and because you would like to show them your respect then go ahead. You can always tell them to screw themselves and get married anyway if they don't agree to give it.
2006-08-09 01:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by munich13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are not getting our parent's blessings even God wouldn't accept our marriage and bless us.
So it is highly essential for getting blessings from Ur mum and dad
2006-08-09 01:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is the right thing to do and it shows your fiance that family is important to you. If they say no they should explain why, though.
2006-08-09 01:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you don't want to ask their blessings then you shouldn't have to. Do what YOU want to do.
2006-08-09 01:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by mych3mromancexx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them right before youns tell em they are going to be grandparents, if you get that order wrong you will never live it down.
2006-08-09 01:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you don't want to have a strain on your marriage because parents don't approve.
2006-08-09 13:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Reeny120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your religion and your family background.
However, its your life, and as long as you are over 18, there is nothing they can do about it.
2006-08-09 01:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by lvbrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋