i asked this question bcause i have experienced it in my life and now not able to forget him ?
2006-08-08 17:51:41 · 39 answers · asked by v.d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl you are getting all the wrong guys hahhahha
2006-08-08 17:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Art G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is like a ****, when it gets hard fcuk it. This is how I live.
Learn to get over the guy who ditched you & made you feel used.
Life is & practical world is like that only honey, you have to be very very carefull while making any decision or trustin anyone. There always are wolves out there looking for prey, but the ultimate responsibility of making a decision lies with ourselves so that we don't become a prey. It is easy to blame whole of gender for some % of wolves but introspect & think how much you allowed him to use you. Could he have used you without your permission??
Get over that guy & move ahead in life....forget everything about him like you delete unwanted items from your computer except the learning from this experience & apply them in future when you meet a nice guy.
Good luck & God bless you
2006-08-08 19:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men leave women after being with them. You have to choose your mates more carefully. Make sure they are not after sex. Become friends before jumping into the sack (sort of speak).
Give the guy a chance to get to know you for you. If he is eager to take you to bed, then drop him immediately, because he will use you and dump you.
women tend to fall in love alot quicker than guys. Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears..meaning men tell women (they love them, or they are so sexy,ect..) in order to get them into bed, and when they do, the game is over.
Give yourself some time to get over your past and find some new friends to do things with. do not jump into a situation too fast, let the guy you meet next time chase after you, and call you. don't be so quick to give up your goodies, let him earn your respect.
If he doesn't want to wait, then let him go..but remember this..A man will treat a woman according to how she (ALLOWS) him to treat her. Don't be a door mat.
Try raising the bar and your standards a bit more, meet guys at the library, mall, parks, ect..clubs and bars...you know what those guys are after...so good luck with your next new partner.
2006-08-16 08:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered why some beautiful Young women go for older men?
Because they want love.
Men seem to be ready for one woman around the age of 35 and in some cases 40.
Go for the mature men, you'll feel more secure.
2006-08-10 09:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tokyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't demand more for ourselves. We are not loving ourselves first before allowing someone else the priveledge of loving us. We operate in foolishness rather than wisdom. We are afraid to be rejected and be alone with ourselves again if we have to so we accept things that are beneath our character. We do not realize that we are already alone. We are already strong. We don't realize that we don't "need" a man to validate ourselves. We don't realize that "wanting" a man is okay but it is not a necessity. We have not learned to be satisfied within ourselves. To take ourselves out and pamper ourselve, make love to ourselves embrace ourselves. When we learn to do these things only then can we be respected.
2006-08-16 11:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give them a chance to know you and you get to know them before you think of having sex. If you give in so fast they are not going to respect you and they will move on. Men think so much different then us women do. They look at sex as just sex women want to feel a bond. Try taking it slowly next time you are in a relationship and see how it turns out. Good luck.
2006-08-08 17:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not true for all men; How ever some men and women believe in change b'cos it's boring for them to play the same old music all the time.
2006-08-16 04:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by johari_mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are same and same is the case with women also,have u heard the quote "Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance. " and one quote from me pls note"If someone betrays you once, it's his fault. If he betrays you twice, it's your fault.I suggest you to "Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it's the only way to live life completely."
2006-08-15 22:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Navdeep S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becasue some men only want one thing and that is sex and once they get that they ae gone. they move on to the next female and if women do that we are called sluts. sometimes you can find some men that want and give true love, but not all the time. when you find that, stick with that man.
2006-08-15 09:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by brownsuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, gee the same could be said the other way too, i had few girl friends in my life and i usually stay with them a long time and fall for them, but they leave, and i am left holding my heart, so i think that you had falling into the loveless relationship, and a true love relationship is in your near future
2006-08-16 11:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MAYBE IT'S CUZ THEY THINK UR EASY AND IF U R THEN THAT'S THE BIG WHY... IF U ARENT THEN UR JUST MEETING THE WRONG GUYS ...IF U WANT SOMEBODY TO GIVE U TRUE LOVE ....REMEMBER WHOEVER LOVES YOU WILL RESPECT YOU ... TRY SAYING NO IF HE STAYS AFTER A COUPLE NO'S THEN HE MIGHT LOVE YOU OR HE MIGHT JUST WANT TO DO THE SAME ... U JUST HAVE TO KNOW THE GUY... THAT'S ALL
2006-08-16 17:03:51 · answer #11 · answered by wenckiepr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋