if your boyfriend, who is normally very loving and affectionate, wanted you to act like you were "just friends" when his brother came over?
2006-08-08 17:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be too immature to show that he's in a relationship that he has nothing to be scared of or ashamed of. And I know it must sound hard, but maybe he's just ashamed of you or something. Either, ask him as that is the only way to truly find out what's going on in his head. If he cant grow up, then honey, it's his loss, not yours.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 17:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by diamant152001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dont think I could handle that because to me if he wants to act affectionate only when you guys are together, then to me thats fake. I dont think there should be a reason for anyine to act like that if it was me I dont think the relationship would have last very long. Wh yshould it matter what people think of your relationship and thay you feel about eachother.
2006-08-08 17:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very angry & ask him what the hell was going on.
It sounds like he doesn't want his brother (for whatever reason) to know you're together. He should NEVER hide your relationship from anyone.
Talk to him about it, but if I were you, I'd consider leaving. That's just screwed up.
2006-08-08 17:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his @§§ would be grass, if he cant show the same amount of love to you in front of his family as he can in public than he needs to come to grips with himself and the fact that no matter what his family will always love him, whereas you can easily say "good bye"
2006-08-08 17:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_derek_ebner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree with hearts
2006-08-08 17:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's f**ked up.he must be shame or embarrassed.i'd be like heck with you then.how old is he?why does his brother have the hots for you and he dont want him to find out ya'lls dating? that's still kinda messed up though.
2006-08-08 17:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by OU babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him, and ask him why he was doing that. If he ignores it or shrugs it off, I would threaten to dump him. If he still doesn't comply, I would dump the sorry loser.
2006-08-08 17:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by noircorazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be asking why. red flags everywhear there...does the brother and b/f know something you dont????????? sounds that way...ask questions, somethings going on they both know but you dont know...or atleast the b/f knows and you dont..theres something you dont know. ask questions to both of them.
2006-08-08 17:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to answers this as a man. GONNA HURT.IF HE WAS PROUD TO HAVE YOU BE HIS LADY. THE REST IS UNSAID.
2006-08-08 17:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be confused and ask him why are you trying to hide something?
2006-08-08 17:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋