So I am a 23 year old virgin. I started talking to this woman on a website and turns out she is also a virgin. She is 31. She is big. She proposed we meet at a hotel and explore together. We both want to experience new things and seem to be a match desire wise. I just am on the fence about this. Is this really how I want it to happen? Isn't it time for me to start living and see what this is like? I am lost right now.
2006-08-08 17:16:30 · 19 answers · asked by Mistervision2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't do it. Most people tell tons of lies on the internet. Don't believe anything that she says. Find someone that you can communicate with face to face. There's someone out there for you.
2006-08-08 17:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by •°o.O(epiitome•of•beauty)O.o°• 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right.
I was a 23 year old virgin myself, when I posted an ad online and met a man who also wanted to explore. I was big too, but I had been a virgin because of past religious rules. We met, found out we had a connection and explored sexually. It was amazing. Neither of us was looking for anything long term. We ended up getting married and are six days from our second anniversary.
The only thing that I would caution is that because you are both virgins (I was a virgin, he was experienced) it might be awkward. Maybe get a book or something just to have some ideas to work with.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-09 00:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by cutiekewterson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is big? What does that mean? And at 31, are you sure she is a virgin? Maybe she is just playing you? Well, If she is a virgin, at least you know she is desease free, that's a plus. I think you should do it. Why not?
2006-08-09 00:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should lose your virginity with a stranger. Yes, she is considered a stranger because you dont know who she is. Don't do it. You will know when its the right time. I knew who I wanted to do it with. I had a feeling. Just think about what you really want because I don't think that it really matters if you wait a little longer to have sex.
2006-08-09 00:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I would meet for coffee first in a public place. LOTS of things can go wrong, and it is much better to be safe than sorry. It may not be a horror-story-in-the-making, but (as with anything else), take common sense precautions.
2006-08-09 00:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... I think not! you could be hurt and I really doubt she is a virgin. and you have saved yourself for this long. , why not wait until you fall in love with a special girl who loves you too? not that this woman isn't special she very well may be but I think you can find some one in person, and well I just don't think its a good idea.
2006-08-09 00:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be crude, but life begins once you lose your virginity. You'll be much less awkward around women and your self-esteem will be much higher. If you're both healthy, consenting adults and you like each other just fine, then go for it.
2006-08-09 00:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is trouble from the start!!! You do not know this person at all!! Could be a sicko with aids!!! if you have been a virgin this far, save it for your true love!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This Internet is not how to go about it!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 00:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever seen dateline were they find and arrest child molesters?? Maybe it is something like that where she says she is a virgin but she will really give you all kinds of STD's cause she is angry at all men. I wouldnt if I were you. I would wait till you met someone who actally ment something to you.
2006-08-09 00:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by BluEyez01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take your time, no need to be in a heated rush about it. just get to know each other, talk to each other..learn from each other...when the time is right you both will know it. dont push the issue, time is on both of your all sides. better to know and want it togather, than to be sorry in the end...good luck...
2006-08-09 00:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋