Me and my ex-bf broke up almost 3 months ago and now i heard from his cousin that his getting married next year.But i still love him very much..I can still can't get over with him.
2006-08-08 17:14:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey just take some you time and do all the things that u never had a chance to do and wanted to do so much when u all were together, try to occupy yourself with friends, family, activities and keep reminding yourself you don't always need a bf to be happy. there's more to life. give yourself a break and do not look for anyone, let that broken heart heal please, otherwise you will end up in deep trouble if u start another relationship. take it easy. time is the keyword.remember life goes on and not all things we have control over and try to be as mature about the situation, learn acceptance. thinking of the reasons you all broke up and maybe all the things you didn't like about him may even help! however for closure sake, that is if you are willing, you can even open up your feelings to him but do not take it to the extent where he may think that you want him back, cuz you do not wanna get back with him, after all he got married really quick. And memories may exist, but use this as a lesson that you have learnt for the future.Sooner or later you would truely see the results of what you have learnt.
2006-08-08 17:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you never completely will.
Sometimes some people always stay with you, & that's not something you can change.
He's getting married, & clearly he didn't give a real damn about you since three months later he's already planning on getting married.
KNow that you can never be with him again, & that he didn't really care in the first place. Know that those memories will always be there, & nothing can get rid of the goodtimes you guys had.
But open up yourself to new people. The key isn't finding a new guy, it's just letting go & learning from it all.
2006-08-09 00:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a vacation! Somewhere fun and exciting! I know you love him but do a vacation that is so fun you forget! All i have to say is just how you put your question you sound really sweet, don't worry there are other fish in the sea! Plus he will regret breaking a beautiful heart!
Good luck!!!
2006-08-09 00:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by actingqueen100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up 3 months ago and hes already getting married!!! Thats a pretty quick engagement.
Well you have a couple of options, since he is getting married, you have to respect his fiance though.
You can tell him how you feel but remember that he is engaged.
2006-08-09 00:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Maddie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNFORTUNETLY SWEETHEART, YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT THE FAIRY TALE LOVE THAT YOU EXPECT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. START GETTING INVOLVED WITH GROUPS AND HOBBIES, GET OUT AND KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. WALK, EXCERCISE, CLEAN, CALL FRIENDS, ANSWER QUESTIONS ON THIS. NO SAD SONGS OR PICS OF HIM. DO YOUR GRIEVING, BUT DON'T STOP LIVING YOUR LIFE. AT FIRST YOU WILL HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF, BUT GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND INTERACT WITH OTHER PEOPLE EVEN IF IT ONE KIND THING FOR SOMEONE ELSE EACH DAY. PAMPER YOURSELF AND GET ALL DOLLED UP EVERY DAY, MAKE YOURSELF, YOU CAN DO IT
2006-08-09 00:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i no how yo feel i still lov my ex but the only way i sorted it out was asked him how he felt bout me and he thought it would never work so i gave up and then you just b friends till he matures again or more i feel so sorry
2006-08-09 00:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's noway to just forget and move on.. but time would just change.. and when you met another person in your life that's better than him. you'll know and that's when things will start changin again.
2006-08-09 00:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to heal a broken heart is to love again....TT_TT unfortunatly.
2006-08-09 00:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through yourself into a hobby, friends, school--you name it. Stay soooooooooo busy you wont have time to think about him!!!
2006-08-09 00:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try working to get him out of your head, hang out with friends, meet new people
2006-08-09 00:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by brokenintears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋