2006-08-08 16:36:05 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. My husband and I are 23 now. We got married at 20. But were together from the time we were 15. We made a decision based on our morals and value systems that we wanted to wait until we were married. We had sex on our wedding night for the first time, and I'll be completely honest, it was truly amazing!!! And, we are thankful everyday that we saved ourselves for marriage. We wouldn't take it back for anything.
2006-08-08 16:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. Sex leads to emotional dependence (Because it is a bonding act) on someone who might not give a crap about you other than if you will let him use your body to make him feel good. Sex also leads to babies, and it is not fair to a baby to not have 2 parents that love and care about them. Abortion should never be an option. Sex outside of marriage is trouble. I don't care what anyone says about the "Well, if you don't have sex with them, then how will you know if your sex life will be good?". That is a stupid agreement because 1. Sex gets better with practice. 2. What happens if they get injured and can't have sex with you while you are married? Would you leave an incapacitated person because they can't get you off? How heartless. Save sex for when someone truly loves you. How do you know when they do? When they pledge before God with marriage that they will love you forever.
2006-08-08 16:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you "should", but i think it is ok if you do. as long as it isn't illegal or for a reason like if you do he'll love you more. you should be in a relationship with them long enough to know for sure if they love you and you love them. You should most definitely use protection, but don't double up condoms to be extra safe, that will work against you and heightens your chances of pregnancy. this is not something that someone else can tell you the answer to, it is something you have to make up your own mind, but if you decide to, go to your local clinic and get put on the pill and use another form of protection as well. If you are even the littlest unsure, don't do it and don't let him pressure you.
2006-08-08 17:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by plaidbunny3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to have sex before marriage as long as you still take sex seriously with your partners. That's the concept that the bible is try to tell you, that sex is important and not just for your enjoyment when ever you have the urge to do it, it's something special to only be shared between two people who love each other.
2006-08-08 16:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but stay protected.
Reason why I say yes is because your partner might be the worst person at it and you will have a lot of regret. Also, constant terrible sex can ruin a marriage. Trying to fix it might be too late. I know a lot of divorcees.
But it is up to you & your partner, not other people.
2006-08-08 16:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO , NO , NO !!! It is so wrong to have sex before marriage , because it is going against the set morals and values God gave all of us to have . It is better to go with what God gave than to go with what others are doing ........ all of us don't know what is best for ourselvies but God does , so trust him and do what he wants. Your virginity is one of the most unigue special gift you could ever give your ORDAINED husband or your ORDAINED wife . It is so special to wait !!!!!! No one don't need to test anyone out to see that they are sexually compatible to their girlfriend or boyfriend.HAVE SELF CONTROL !!!Keep yourself pure at heart and don't compromise to anything. Stand strong what is right in morals and values that is what courts here and take courage to do that something right. THERE IS NO PILLOW SO SOFT AS A CLEAR CONSCIENCE !!!
2006-08-08 17:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe sex before marriage. there are thing that you need to no before you get married and being compatible in bed is a big one . there are case that i read that if the man is not the right chemistry the girl will have a sickness that can hurt her. so test drive you new love before you make the plunge..
2006-08-08 16:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, woman. Are u mad. That is the disgusting thing I ever heard. What will u do if the man you sex with leaves you & got married with another woman. No 1 will except. U better b carefull.
2006-08-08 16:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. It's all about personal choice. We can all state how we feel but at the end of the day its about you and what you want. Don't let people answer a question like this, because everyone is different.
2006-08-08 16:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by Maria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your beliefs. A lot of people do not wait until marriage but do wait until they have found some1 they love and care about. But do not do it with just any1. If you are going to do it before marriage make sure it is with some1 special, otherwise you will regret it believe me
2006-08-08 16:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋