I have frequent sexual fantasies about my Pastor. He has a wife and kids and he says that homosexuality is wrong, but I can't deny how I feel about him. When he was on a trip recently, he trusted me to water his plants and feed his cat. When I was at his house, I tried on some of his clothes and took a pair of his dirty underwear out of the hamper. I like to bury my face in his underwear and inhale his scent as I pleasure myself. Should I tell him what I have done? I am afraid that he will not forgive me and that he will throw me out of the church, and I especially don't want to have to give the underwear back. I'm so confused. What should I do?
2006-08-08 16:33:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Uncle Pervie, there's not much you can do. My suggestion is to stay away from the pastor as he already has prior committments. You definitely not tell anyone about this. lol
2006-08-09 03:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Edward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uncle Perv, you are in grave danger, My boy!!
You need to seriously recognize it and personally acknowledge it to yourself and to God.
I think you have got yourself in pretty deeply into this attitude and style.
You're not going to win from here without God's help - much prayer and supplication to Him, much immersion in His scriptures, much GENUINE service of others.
You also need to establish some goals in your life that are wholesome and lead you away from such notions and activity.
Get yourself a decent Job.
Engage in some goals related to physical activity and physical accomplishment of some kind.
Set up a course leading somewhere;
and use and discover your talents and set projects where you can use them for the benefit and betterment of others.
And, if you have fallen out with your family, or members of it [especially, parents], you need to set goals and time in your life to visit and do things with them.
You need to Bridge these gaps which have alienated you in life.
Finally, as you get yourself and life back in order somewhat, you need to find a good girl from church who will help promote the Good that you can do.
This will eliminate your confusion and give you Life and Purpose about who you are - one of God's precious children.
2006-08-08 23:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real and go somewhere else. Come on, it is like a thief saying, shall I ask that rich man to let me hold his wallet. All you are doing, or wanting to do, is muck up the pond.
2006-08-08 23:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an awfully attractive young man, going through the normal growing pains one your age experiences.
2006-08-11 08:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. quit being retarded. if you're looking for laughs, go to an open mic night for a comedy routine. however, i don't think this would get you many laughs. and consequently, you could just get beaten up by fairly large gay men. oh, now THAT'S funny.
2006-08-08 23:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by umidontcare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by not making stupid things up like this just for the attention that i am reluctantly giving you. then, try real hard to ask decent questions and stop wasting people's time
2006-08-08 23:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by bballsistaKT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry. He may have similar feelings for you.
Your only fear of rejection should be that you are much too old for him. He probably only likes younger boys.
2006-08-09 03:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!!
stand up in church and announce it to the cogregation.
2006-08-08 23:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Away and Repent.
2006-08-09 00:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek professional help for your disorder.
2006-08-08 23:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by asafam23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋