Do you think it is fair to ask my boyfriend never to smoke pot again?

Answer 1

It's not only fair, it's the smart and healthy thing to do!

Answer 2

It is fair for you to ask him to quit. It is wrong for you to get upset at him if he decides not to. It is his life... he has the right to do what he wants. However... he should respect your wishes and not smoke around you anymore.

BE WARNED: I know plenty of guys that smoked pot...and none of them would have quit if their girlfriends had asked. If they are smoking .... the odds are they are addicted (even tho they claim they aren't). POT isn't addictive.... but the lifestyle is. Laziness breeds more laziness. If I were you, I wouldn't ask him to quit... i would ask him to do MORE things with you. The more time he spends active... the less time he will spend smoking pot. The more active he gets... hopefully... the less pot he will want to smoke. Most addicting behaviors are a reaction to other possible activities. You always choose the better of the possible options. Give him better options.

Answer 3

Yes it is. This is something that you require in a relationship. Which is a good thing. However, you also need to realize that this guy may have his OWN set of personal standards, which requires his significate other to allow him to smoke pot without complaint. So, it is fair to say that the relationship between the two of you has reached the place where it has to disolve in order for you both to be happy. Sorry to say, but I think it may be time to break up if he refuses.

Answer 4

It's fair to tell him that you are uncomfortable with him smoking pot and that for you, you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who uses drugs...tell him you understand if that is what he chooses to do, but you'd rather him be honest and tell you this is part of his lifestyle, rather than lie to you that he has stopped just to keep you happy.....if he does it occasionally (few times a month) with his friends, decide if you are ok with that...if he does it a few times a day , decide if you are ok with that.....i had a friend who told her boyfriend she didn't want to be w/ someone who smoked pot, he respected it, and years later they are happily married....me on the other hand told my boyfriend, who lied and said he stopped, but I later found out he did it 4 times a day for a year.....if he doesn't stop now, he probably never will

Answer 5

It is fair to ask him, although I doubt he'll leave it... I used to do some a while ago, my girlfriend always gave me a hard time on that. So I decided not to tell her when I did it, and sometimes tried not to go out with her to parties or reunions where I knew I was going to have some. It's really difficult to ask someone to quit doing something he (she) enjoys. As long as his smoking doesn't affect his normal life, I think you should let him enjoy it!

Answer 6

It's fair. But you gotta be careful how you approach the subject with
him, otherwise he's gonna think you're trying to change him. Let him know how it makes you feel about him smoking pot. If he still doesn't wanna change, leave.

Answer 7

Yes, you can tell or ask anything to anyone but he or she will be the final person to decide. It is a good idea though. Show him some web sites about weed. It not only makes you lazy the next day, its a drug.

Good luck and good night

Answer 8

yes, but he is a loser so dump him.

I dont like how girls put up with that stuff, I have never done an illegal drug, or drank a beer or glass of wine in my life. Plus I am very good looking, so why dont I get girls?

Answer 9

No i don't because when u met him he probably was already donig it and by u asking him to do that is only going to make him think youre trying to control his life.

Answer 10

no i think if you strongly dislike it and if he really loves you. He will quit smoking or work something out with you.