he says instead of us going out we should be just friends with benefits but i am having a feeling that he is just using me to do whatever to me but i like really like him?is he just using me?
2006-08-08 15:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i would have to say that he is using you. i have the same problem my guy says that he doesn't want a girlfriend and that kind of things but then he is always saying that he loves me. i want to believe him because i really like him but every time i talk to him it just irritates me more. i wanna be with him but hes not ready and when he is ready he doesn't know if its going to be with me, all he wants now is sex and to have a good time. thats what i don't want... so i would say keep lookin. i know its hard, im going through it too... be strong.
good luck =)
2006-08-08 16:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Awesome girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. A guy that doesn't want a relationship and says he 'loves you' is trying to use that to make you think he cares. Don't get me wrong, he may really care... but I doubt he really loves you. Unless you want a friend with benefits I don't think you should do anything with him. Find a guy that wants to be with you.
2006-08-08 23:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by fallinghard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run now.
Look Friends with Benefits is a great deal if you don’t love the person.
You have feeling ……..He does not
Stop wasting your time perusing this relationship.
Choose a new man to date.
2006-08-08 23:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, he cares about you, but not in a romantic way. Friends with benefits is when two people, usually who have either been hurt and dont want a romantic relationship, or are just not feeling in love with anyone, but really horny, so they want sex but no ties
2006-08-08 23:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by jilla68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his word for it. When a man says "he doesn't want to take it any further..., " he means exactly that.
Truth be told...if a guy likes you NOTHING will stop him from making you his girlfriend.
This is called "he's just not that into you."
Move on.
2006-08-08 23:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello-why are you kidding yourself! He's getting free benefits while you are falling in love. Quit this stupid behavior girl-tell him to find another girl to use. He loves you because of what is between your legs, Sorry to be blunt, but you need to respect yourself, he sure isn't.
2006-08-08 23:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by aquarian77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits??? what kind of benefits.. remember it is always us letting other people to use us. if you feel he is using you be strong and don't let him using you.
2006-08-08 23:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by H*M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that he just wants to have sex with you. If he truely cared about you he would want to try and have a relationship with you.
2006-08-08 23:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is using you. forget about him. and move on. and have some respected for your self.
2006-08-08 23:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, he's using you.
2006-08-08 23:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋