How can i get a girlfriend?

Question

No, i'm not the guy from india trying to get sexy pics of girls, i'm just a lonely 17 year old(almost 18) who would really like to have a girlfriend. i'm nice, respect a girls feelings and boundaries, and am plenty willing to save sex for marriage. i'm from a happy home, i have a job, i'm going to be a senior in high school, i have my own car that is not in bad shape and has options including a nice stereo system, and i tend to get along well with people. yet i can't seem to find a girl. please tell me how to, from step one. please, no stupid answers. is there anything wrong w/ a teenager wanting a date? or am i at an age where girls aren't thinking straight yet?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, you are at the age where girls like the "bad boys"... not telling you to be bad... just telling you that, it's not YOU that's the problem. It's THEM. Just keep yourself straight, keep trying and in another 2-3 years... all the guys you are losing these girls to... will be dust in the wind and you, with the good job, nice car and some money in your pocket... will have the pick of the litter. Trust me. REAL girls want guys like you, they just don't know it yet.

Answer 2

This is quite a big question you have here, but it can be broken down into simple terms.
If theres a particular girl you like, there is no need to get all formal right off the start (by formal I mean officially asking her out on a date). Simply relax and hang out with her; get to know her; talk to her. This can simply be done at school. However, you want to keep in mind that you don't want to show her that you like her right off the start, incase she doesn't feel the same way. That is why if you hang out with her enough, you will begin to see some of the signs that she likes you as well. Stay cool, calm, and most of all funny.
Once you start seeing some of her signs that she likes you (ie: she stares and smiles at you alot, she frequently makes physical contact with you, she enjoys spending time with you, etc) then you can move on to actually asking her out on a date; perhaps a movie, dinner, etc.

If you guys have fun on the first date, make plans for another. But keep in mind you always want to show just a bit less interest in her than she shows in you. As well, always be polite and a gentleman.

After a few dates, try kissing her at some point when the mood is right. I can't tell you when to kiss her, it is just something that you will know to do when the moment is right. Perhaps after a hug good night give her a small kiss on the lips; but nothing too big.

After that, if all goes well, things will just pick-up and happen. Getting through the first few dates and the first kiss is the hard part, after that it all gets easier because you both know that you both like each other.

Happy dating!

Answer 3

first of all don't ask how can i get a girlfriend, ask how can i get a date?

second of all, be confident, girls can tell when a guy is nervous,
not that it's bad thing some girls actually find it cute. but there's something very sexy about a guy who knows what he wants. and is not afriad to show it.Be aggressive. Branch out as well, go to different places; restaurants, pools, library, markets, stores. You can find your someone anywhere. Also let be known that you're looking for someone, people may think that you're not interested right now with a relationship. Get some feedback; if you have girl-friends ask them about certain LINGO, code. One thing they might say could possibly be something else. Ex: I'm busy with my career could mean "Go away" or "Try harder". This is also the age where girls are experimenting with different sorts of guys. So that also falls into effect. Also remember to just be YOU! Cause that's what they want to see.

Answer 4

The true question is: It sounds like you just want to date, and not get in a relationship. You're at the end of highschool for crying out loud. So to get a date:
Find someone you like. Don't aim at someone who makes you feel really really bashful. Or else you won't get anywhere. Pick someone who looks cool and is fun to hang out with. (those make the greatest dates and friends)
Clean yourself up: Here's a major thing from my sex to yours, girls hate long and dirty fingernails. (aside from body-odor and unkept hair ect. And shave if you're shaving now.)
Start with small talk: Get comfortable around her. See what her personality type is.
Ask her out like it's not a big deal: MAJOR IMPORTANTE! PLAN YOUR DATE BEFORE YOU DO IT! Don't say, "You want to go out on a date" and she says, "Sure, what you want to do?" And you get stuck with a dumb look on your face saying, "I dont know..." PLAN IT OUT! It could be going to see a movie, a concert, WHATEVER! Out to eat, get ice-cream. JUST PLAN IT! There are a lot of girls out there who aren't thinking right yet. But hey, look at it this way, who says you are? It's all to have fun, meet people, and make friends. SO! Here's my answer to your question, hope it works. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

well, my advice to you would be to just be yourself. you'll find the right person. got a crush? do some research. find out what she likes and loves. do little things for her. trust me us girls love it when guys do that. smile at her alot. show her that you're not just wanting a girlfriend to prove you can get one(if that makes sense). flirt a little, but not too much. its kinda wierd when you can tell someone is flirting with you too much. don't do anything stupid like doing something just to impress her. don't worry about it. you sound like an awsome guy. you'll find her someday.

Answer 6

you sound a great catch if you were between the ages of 22 and 30 id catch you but heres hoping you have a older clone hehehe, hunny you are doing it all right plenty of gals looking for guys like you!!!!!

Answer 7

girls at that age are not thinking straight yet, just be yourself and get a sense of humor, forget their boundaries and feelings, girls usually at that age think that a guy is a wuss or something

Answer 8

If you find a girl you like, just hang out with her and talk to her and after a while ask her out!:) hope it helps!!:D

Answer 9

aww u sound like a sweet guy if u show a gurl ur feelings she will show them back even if its bad!!lol!! well i am 16 we can talk if u wana!!

Answer 10

well what you should do is go to one of those dating sites like eharmony try it and see if it works!!!