would you save you virginity for your loved one who is not a virgin ? how will you react when you findout that he lied to you that he is a virgin ?
2006-08-08 15:56:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would definitely save it for him... it would be a gift I would give him for our weddin night... but if he can't give me the same (his virginity, I mean), it wouldn't really matter to me... I still love him anyway.
2006-08-08 16:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by yctuico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I am certinatley to young to have sex!! And I won't have it until I'm at least 18 or older, because I don't want to through my life away!! But I don't see why he would need to lie to me and say he is not a virgin!! He doesn't need to impress me and act like a bigshot to impress his friends either. I wouldn't be mad I would just be disapointed that he lied to me!! There's nothing wrong with being a virgin!! It shows you are mature and don't rush into things you aren't ready for!! So would I be mad no, I'd be glad he had the courage to wait, but I would be hurt that he lied to me!! I'm waiting and I hope he will too!!! I hope I helped you with your question!!! Good Luck with your problem or who ever's it is!!
2006-08-08 16:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would save my virginity for a loved one who is a virgin himself because if he truly cared for his future wife he would know to keep his pants on......and I hopefully never have to react to the situation of finding out that he lied about being a virgin....I'll do my "research" and make sure he wouldn't do anything to hurt me....
2006-08-08 16:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I think everybody tries to save his virginity for his/her loved one. And be sure that this does not mean that you are going to marry him/her.
2. I don't care about that. The past is not important...only the present and the future you want to build with him/her
2006-08-08 16:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by sofi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how serious you are about the partner. For example: if it's right before your wedding date ask him why he didn't tell you sooner, then ask why he lied. After hearing these answers, ask him what other things he has lied about. THEN consider whether to go forward in the relationship.
2006-08-08 16:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by justkiddingu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf had a friend he though he knew. then one day he found out the guy was with this nice chic who was a virgin..was with her for two years then went overseas for war. he cheated on her whole time..then came back. the chic called her and explained later, but the guy jo completely lied said it was all false.. convinced her a week later.. then took her virginity, then she later got an std from him that he got from the other chic! she found out and went crazy on him. if it was me, i would have tied him down and brutalized him hardcore...wait, this doesn't exactly go with your question.. oh well
2006-08-08 16:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by hey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would save it but if i found out he lied. i would demand to know why? but i would't mind both of us being virgins. virgin does not mean u have no idea how o how to have passionate sex. just the idea that u are his first and only and he is your first and only
2006-08-08 16:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by gissyali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd save it. If I found out he lied I'd be disappointed, but hey, there are worse lies. And I would hope I'd know enough to pick a guy who wasn't a liar.
2006-08-08 15:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nuwanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if he wasn't a virgin as long as he is the one God wants for me.
2006-08-08 16:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am saving myself for my husband. If I found out that he lied...we
would go to the doctor and get every STD and HIV test known to man...
2006-08-08 16:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by asinglegurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋