my parents and everyone cls me lazy and i dont want them to i do practicly everything they want me to do amd it just hurts me how do i stop them
2006-08-08 15:53:01 · 13 answers · asked by babeツ 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Have you told them how you feel? There are two ways you can go about this: the high road and the low road. I suggest the high road, you'll feel better about yourself in the end. Talk to your family, tell them to stop. Next, don't wait to be asked before you do something, surprise them. It could make both of you feel better. If it seems really bad, find somebody to talk to. If you don't feel like you have a friend that can be sympatethic, see about a counselor. Last, don't worry what other people say. I know, it's easier said than done, but it can be done. I learned the hard way. As long as you know you're a good person, and you don't feel you're lazy that's all that really matters. When you stop letting it bother you it seems to stop. It did for me. I think part of it was because I just stopped noticing it, but people also forgot about it, and left me alone when they realized they weren't getting to me. Good luck, and I hope they can listen to you.
2006-08-08 16:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by craigash7 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
They didn't mean it. If your parents say it again, tell them " You really think that I'm crazy" Then make the saddest face you can. Or maybe just make a very sad face, don't speak.
2006-08-08 15:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to give you an example of when they noted this laziness they speak of and ask them how you can improve.....and i think you should tell them if they cant come up with an answer then they should give a apology
2006-08-08 16:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by bloomsatnoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing the stuff they ask u to do.. then when stuff gets a lil dirty they will realilze that u have been doing ur work.. i go through the same thing
2006-08-08 15:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by t_luv08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just do what they ask you to do. You could even do some stuff that they don't ask you to do like washing the dishes for your mom instead of her doing it.
2006-08-08 15:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me i have been in this situation and i know from experience. that it doesn't matter what u do their not gonna slack off. even if u busted ur tail day and night they would still talk...
good luck
2006-08-08 15:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by broken_dreams2637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and put in a little bit more effort.
2006-08-08 15:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them less reason to.
2006-08-08 15:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by O'Shea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just purposely be REALLY lazy for a week or so and they will know what they have been missing...
2006-08-08 15:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by rei 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not be lazy, I guess.
2006-08-08 15:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋