I met this girl Saturday night and got her number. This is the first girl I've actually been excited to call and follow up with in a long time. So anyways, I call her yesterday (Monday night) and it went straight to voicemail. I left a message and right after I did I know I shouldn't have b/c now it's totally out of my hands. She hasn't called back and I know I should probably just let it go but like I said, I saw something in this girl. So should I call, text, or do nothing? Help!
2006-08-08 15:50:46 · 22 answers · asked by Young Chea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try calling again in a few days. if nothing then leave it
2006-08-08 15:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Nothing! You have already let her know that you are interested. Sure, calling again will make you seem desperate. But more importantly, if you have to call her again in order for her to return your call, then she isn't as interested as you are. Why do that to yourself? You could harass her into calling you back only to have her string you along because she feels pressured and then have her get fed up with it and eventually stop calling all together. That's an ugly picture....let it go.
By the way, its a bit early to be freakin about this. You met her on Saturday and didn't call her until Monday. That's two nights. In the land of silly dating games, that means that you shouldn't expect to hear from her before tomorrow night.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 16:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by livn_to_laugh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately don't text. That's just shows her you are too scared to actually call her, and thats a turn-off. Wait a few days, then call her back. If she answers, then just talk to her normally and ask her out, but if she doesn't answer don't leave another message. After the second call and still no answer. Try once more a few days after that, and if she still doesn't answer, then forget about it b/c shes probly got caller id and is just avoiding you.
2006-08-08 15:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mattyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls will be too shy to call back, even if you left your number and said "call me". I'd suggest you give it another go and either call or TM, and go from there (don't leave any message on her machine if you call again).
Give her a good, solid chance to accept or reject your interest...no point in going off wondering what might have been...
2006-08-08 15:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. You have already contacted her so she knows you are interested and you know she gave you the right number so that is a plus. Just wait and see what happens. Don't go calling and texting you don't want to seem too desperate!
2006-08-08 15:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call again, if it goes to her voicemail dont leave a message then text her. but it all depends how did the "date" go?
2006-08-08 15:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by __**gaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try calling again. If you do talk to her you can say something like you didn't know if she got your message or not. If she isn't receptive or doesn't return your call then leave it alone.
2006-08-08 15:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say text the girl, pretty much when a guy texts a girl it means there thinking about that person so hopefully she will text u back but dont give up on her
2006-08-08 15:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 3 more times and leave messages. If she doesn't call back, bag it.
2006-08-08 15:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait like a week
if you contact her again beforehand you will look desperate
itt is only tuesday give it time! she prob has not called back bc she, too, doesnt want to look like shes waiting by the phone. shell prob call tomorrow
dont worry, mervelash loves you!
2006-08-08 15:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call once again and follow it with a text. she did give you the number for you to use it. call till you get a hold of her.
2006-08-08 15:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋