Need a gel that can make me enjoy sex with my partner for a prolonged period
2006-08-08 15:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go look around in an adult store they should have tons of stuff you can try - I heard co*k rings work too. Until then just try and picture your grandma naked when you feel like you are going to blow
2006-08-08 15:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why look for a gel? These products don't really sort the problem, just the symptom. If he's "going off" too soon, most people find that a condom is about the most effective (and subtle) way of desensitising the penis.(but for god's sake don't use more than one at a time).
If it's not the big P.E, try running "short laps" - basically continue sex as normal, and when he's about to go, stop. Completely. after a short time, he'll be ok to continue, and this can be done many times during one "session", and will eventually lead to him lasting longer anyway. Desensitising gels/sprays are pretty drastic, and if you suggest the use of one, he'll probably feel that self conscious that he'll go even faster through nerves and worry about his "performance".
That's about as much help as I can offer here - hope it's of use!
2006-08-08 15:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a gel that numbs the area becarful though it numbs on contact. So unless you want to go numb to wear a condum
2006-08-08 15:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a gel that makes you not as sensitive or not feel quite as much.
2006-08-08 15:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?kY99
A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-17 00:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some of the oils
2006-08-08 15:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is retarded don't wast your money if if numbs you it will numb her also
2006-08-08 15:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋