If you were 5/6 years old and your sister was 11/12 and kissed you, played with herself using you and did sexual things with her, is that molestation?
If so, why is it not as punishable as if a brother did it?
why is she denying it?
2006-08-08 15:39:17 · 14 answers · asked by SallyS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It countinued on until i was 10 and she was 15. I guess when she got her first boyfriend. I am now 23....
2006-08-08 15:44:54 · update #1
i am female
2006-08-08 15:45:09 · update #2
she told me not to tell so as i child i didn't and i realized alot of my issues in life now are because of this.
She kind of took my innocence away.
2006-08-08 15:46:17 · update #3
This is sexual molestation. Most people are molested by family members. She probably won't ever admit it. It probably embarrasses her now. I would seek counseling to overcome the baggage this has caused. I would pray for her that someday she will be honest about it and apologize. This may never happen but you shouldn't suffer for it. Seek a counselor so that you can move on and get past this. I'm sorry this happened to you. Someone else probably did it to her first and she has got baggage also.
2006-08-08 16:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not abuse from her, it's something she's learned from a trusted adult in her life. Check it out, she has some major issues to deal with, she's simply doing what normal kids do, take it out on your little brother or sister. There is some major problems here, be careful. See her school councelor, do not talk to the parents, because you'll be put out on a limb there. The girl needs help, QUICK, and the boy will eventually. Good luck honey. Now I see your ad ons. She's older now, ok, I think someone like an uncle molested her when she was young, and gotten away with it. Why are you asking this now? I guess I'm confused.
2006-08-08 22:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you do not have to put up with that kind of behavior and she is the one with the problem. She is denying it because she knows it is wrong and doesn't want to get in trouble for this.
You need to tell your parents and if they don't believe you and get her some help now, you need to tell a trusted adult, like a counselor at school so that they can get you some help. She doesn't get off the hook any more than a boy should and you shouldn't have to deal with this by yourself, tell someone and keep telling them until they listen to you. It is not your fault if you tell and you might be able to get her the help she needs now before she thinks she can get away with this behavior on someone else and yes, it is molestation when the other party doesn't want to participate. Get help for your sake and good luck!
2006-08-08 22:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by happychef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This needs to be brought to the attention of the appropriate authorities. The 11/12 year old child herself may have been a victim of sexual abuse, which could explain why she is doing this to the younger child.
2006-08-08 22:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by sillychelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is child abuse, sexual abuse. It should be or should have been reported.It don't matter if it was a boy or girl, brother or sister that did it. It was wrong. It is not to late to report it. You should still report it. That can cause serious damage to you or any body that it happens to.
2006-08-08 23:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's beyond child's play. That kid is old enough to know what she's doing with the boy, and she needs to go to trial as a minor. Also the parents need to answer to the law.
2006-08-08 22:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by LibraSun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sexual abuse yes, and if this is happening to you or someone you know you need to report it, have the parent been told? They should know if the parents do not confront it then I am sorry they need to be reported as well, this may be hard to do but, it need to be done and the sooner the better.
2006-08-08 22:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may deny it because she is scared and knows it is wrong. It should still be as punishable as if the boy did it but you need to talk to them both. If you are not the parent or the guardian then it is not your place to talk to them and you need to let the parents and guardians know.
2006-08-08 22:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by DISCOVERI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irregardless if your brother did it or sister did it, both of them are punishable. Your sister needs to be counselled. Talk your parents before things go too far.
2006-08-08 22:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an interesting case. I'm honestly not sure but it should definitely be brought to a parents attention.
2006-08-08 22:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋