Depends on how old you are and what stage of life your in:
If your young and not likely to be looking to marry this girl anytime soon, go for the hot one. Devotion at a young age closes one off to a lot of the world around them.
If it's time to settle down, go for the hot one. If your gf is really devoted she'll be there still if it doesn't work out with the hot one.
I guess it doesn't matter how old you are--you don't know unless you try. Go for the hot one (then post pictures).
2006-08-08 15:38:16
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answered by dizneeland 3
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How about neither?
You obviously don't care about your GF, because you're even asking this question. So leave her and let her get someone that will treat her properly. As soon as you started looking elsewhere you should have had the balls to leave her, instead of being a wimp and keeping her as a "fall back" in case nothing better came along.
As for her friend - you're being an ***. I don't care if she is "Smokin hot", or whate'ver superficial and immature phrase you want to use. If she's in posession of any self respect, she won't even consider you after you ditch her friend. That and you wouldn't treat her properly anyway, because I guarantee that once the novelty wears off, you'll find some other "smokin hot" girl to fantasise about.
Go buy a porn mag, and deal with what's really making your decisions, and leave relationships to the big boys. You're only purpose here is to make the decent guys of the world look bad thanks to your (and too many other inconsiderate prats') actions.
2006-08-08 15:46:51
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answered by Purecheese 2
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ok, here is my answer. i think that if you want everything to be akward with you and the "burning hot" friend, you should do it.
1. if you want a devoted relationship and it doesnt matter what the person looks like on the outside, then you would be happier with you current gf.
2. if you want to give everything up, and just have a relationship that is based on looks where you know that it is just going to be worse for you in the end, then go ahead and choose the friend.
AND... if you turn out to be unhappy with the friend, remember that your current girlfriend will not in a million years take you bak, and if she does, it will never be the same.
if you have any more questions then email me back at new_big_sis13@yahoo.com!
im glad i could help!!!
2006-08-08 15:42:38
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answered by Anonymous
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You don't need to choice. Make the girls to choose you. haha
You should treat your gf nice. It's good for your relationship of course, but also you let her hot friend know that you are faithful one. Some girls are attracted to guys like that.
What you are doing is investing in the future. Not now, not now, now is not the time to get her hot friend. You are now just planting the seed for future. Just stay close to yr gf's friend. After you broke up, you can talk to the girl naturally. From there onward ..
SEE!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-08 15:41:22
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answered by City hunter 3
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Ahhhh, the temptation is great, Grasshopper...!
You go with the best friend, you stand a good chance of losing them both... It's NOT about looks anyway... Get in deeper (emotionally) with your girlfriend and you'll see a greater beauty within her...
Remember: The prettier they are, the more shallow they tend to be because they can ALWAYS get someone else when things get too difficult for them to handle (which won't take much)... Relationships are full of conflicts and you'd be replaced in a week asking us "My ex-gf's best friend just dumped me... I don't get it...!?" or something lame-o like that... Ladies, can I get an "Amen" to that...?
2006-08-08 15:41:48
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answered by KnowhereMan 6
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It depends if u want a short relationship or a long term relationship. If u want a short term u should go with the best friend. But if u want a long term u should stay with ur girl. Also try to put ur shoes in ur gf shoes. Would u want her to break up with u because ur best friend is hotter than u? Good luck and God bless!!!!
2006-08-08 15:36:50
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answered by Anonymous
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you are a fool you have a gf that is devoted to you probably loves you. Her friend would most likely hurt you in the end why be a fool stick with your gf
2006-08-08 15:35:14
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answered by melthule 3
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Never Leave The One You Love For The One You Like, Because The One You Like, Will Leave You For The One They Love.
2006-08-08 15:40:14
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answered by Gabrielle 4
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Huh...wow...You have to know that there is a rule among most women that they don't date their best friend's ex. That's just how it goes. Do you really want to come between the two of them? And, if you're after just "hotness", perhaps you oughtn't be looking for a girlfriend....
2006-08-08 15:35:10
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answered by Froggy 3
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Did you ever read that story about the dog and the bone? The dog had his bone in his mouth and on his way across the bridge he saw his reflection in the water. The reflected bone looked larger than the actual bone he had but, he wanted the larger bone so he went to grab it and lost the real bone that was in his mouth and ended up with nothing.
2006-08-08 15:36:57
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answered by workingclasshero 5
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