What would you do if your longterm boyfriend and father of your kids cheated on you and then later he said he may have given you a STD?
2006-08-08 15:30:23 · 27 answers · asked by hottytoddyber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lose that loser & find a new person to love
2006-08-08 15:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by DYNOMITE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is a longterm relationship but, I would not forgive him for cheating on me. If I have children, well, then it depends on how old they are. a STD, he better be there next to me and help me get out of it!
2006-08-16 22:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by ms. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when my ex-wife cheated, on me and we had 3 kids, i was at the lawyers office the next day, That's what i did, and get checked every year for any STD's
2006-08-16 17:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad enough he's cheated.....but an STD.....he doesn't even care enough about you to have even wore a condom. That's nasty!!! Kick him to the curb even though it will be very hard to do considering that you love him and have kids together. Be strong!!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 16:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it's always tough when kids are involved.. I would say that first things first... get tested... Then you need to decide if you want to try to work through it or not.. If you do, go to counseling, if not... well then leave...Either way your heart will hurt for a long time....
2006-08-08 22:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id say if you love him and believe he wont do it again, go to some counseling, mabey you preacher or pastor. you deffiantly need to get checked, and him get checked too.
as humans we have the ability to forgive, but we never forget. if you think you'll be hunted by it and not trust him for the rest of your lives, seperate.
if you beleive you can work it out, give it a chance...but i'd advise getting help if you do.
2006-08-16 13:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by workn2live22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would go to the hospital for a blood test. to see what STD he might have given me.
but for the sake of my children, i will probably take them away. afterall, he has no name to them, since he has not married me.
yup, he wont even have any grounds to sue me!
HAHaHAHAH!
:)
2006-08-16 21:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by eva738292 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the cure to the STD and not give it to him.
2006-08-16 20:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Hunter is in the hizzy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow-i think that is unforgettable.
Tell the bastard that you cheated on him to because he sucked in bed.Hurt him and leave him.
2006-08-16 15:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely leave him and seek full custody. No woman deserves to go through that!
2006-08-08 22:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did, id cry about it the first day or so...then start lookin for more after that...theres so many boys in the world, he was only a friend...
2006-08-08 22:41:39 · answer #11 · answered by loveprevails 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋