I have a problem with my neighbor, who is a Jehovah's Witness. She knows that I grew up as one, and is always

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trying to convert me back, which I'm not going to do. I've tried to offer her books on my religion (Islam), because she's always practically forcing Watchtowers down my throat, and when I offered, she got scared, and practically ran away from me. You think I should do this the next time she offers me a Watchtower?
Or should I tell her I'm a devil worshiper, and scare her away with my big horns?

I'm not going to get into a discussion about what I've chosen to believe in, only that I respect other people's points of view, but never plan on reverting back to what I was before. In my faith, that is forbidden. I would never do it any way, because I love Islam. Muslims, whether you believe it or not, aren't crazy. Most of us are the most peaceful people you'll ever meet, and don't believe in making war, or taking frustrations out on the innocent. And I don't have any animosity toward Jehavah's Witnesses, either. The one I grew up with are excellent people. I just don't believe in it any more. To all the muslims on this page "Assalamoalakum", and thankyou for the encouragement.

Answer 1

1. You'd think that if you lived it and left it, you had a pretty strong reason and conviction (and that fact would be evident).
2. Just keep starting to talk about Islam when she comes by. It's not particularly nice, but neither is it mean, and should be quite effective.
3. If you tell her you're a devil worshipper, she will be that much more concerned for you and come over more often.
4. Greet her with an appropriate Islamic greeting. Sorry, I don't know much about Islam, so I can't suggest one myself.

Answer 2

Do like I do. I was also raised a Jehovah's Witness. The sisters come to my house once a month to bring me magazines. Occasionally I will give a donation. I listen to them, allow them to read any scripture they want to read, and offer them a drink and a seat. Kindness, which is taught in the Bible, and I hope the Quran, is a virtue. Always treat people with kindness. Accept the magazines even if you don't read them. Thank her for her concern, and let her know that you are not going to return to a Kingdom Hall no matter what. Remind her that you were taught, while growing up, the lesson of the days of Noah. No need to elaborate.

Answer 3

It is time to enforce your boundaries and, apparently, your property line.

Your Qur'an teaches peace, so try this the next time your well-meaning bully comes into view.

'I appreciate your testimony but I have made my choice; I would appreciate it if you respected my decision.'

If the bully continues, simply say 'this ends today;' and then walk away, repeating softly your favorite verse of peace from your Qur'an.

I am relatively sure your Qur'an does not advocate deceit in your encounters; and besides, there truly is no need to be deceitful with this person (or any other). State your case quietly but firmly; then refuse to allow any further stress over the subject (which will detract from your study) . You are a grown person, entitled to make your own decisions and to have those decisions respected by others.

Answer 4

I think you should try your best to show her the right way. It won't be right on your part to lie and leave someone without proper help. Try having an open conversation everytime she tries to do so. And try the best ways you can think of to convince her. She might learn something form you. After all if you are a Muslim convert someone must have put some effort that have lead you to the right way. If she is not easy with books always be open to conversations. Whatever the outcome God will reward you for your efforts.God bless you.

Answer 5

Just be straightforward with her ... there is no need to stretch the truth or lie. If you do ... in a sense you will be making a sham of your own religion.

The next time she approaches you with an attempt at conversion ... say firmly but politely, "(Insert her name here), perhaps you're only doing what you think is right, but I really don't appreciate your attempts to convert me ... and that includes leaving copies of the Watchtower. I would like us to remain good neighbors ... but for that to happen ... you must stop this." ... or to be a bit more emphatic ... "... you must stop offending me this way."

Hopefully that will do it ... however, If she continues, say VERY firmly, "I asked you not to do this, now I am telling you to stop. This has offended me to the point that I must consider your actions to be harassment"

Answer 6

I have always had the best luck by being congenial. I invite them in and try to make them as comfortable as possible. If they come before I am prayed up then I excuse myself and go into the other room and pray. I have even offered to pray with them that we would receive only the truth form our conversation. I then ask the Holy spirit to come in and guide the conversation. I have had bible studies with them and busted them many times with the Word of God against their books.
I always try to be happy and full of Gods joy. It is amazing how the Holy Spirit can work in that situation. Do not fear them because if God is with you who can be against?
Love them into reality..
Rev.M

Answer 7

Stop arguing and start quoting your holy scripture to her. She may believe that you are really Islamic. But until you convince her she is going to keep trying because they believe that the more resistance they get from people the holier they are, or something to that effect.

Answer 8

As one of Jehovah's Witnesses I can tell you that your neighbor genuinely cares for you and hopes you will return to Jehovah before the end of this system arrives.
Let me assure you,you didn't 'scare' her and you won't scare her by saying you're a devil worshiper either.
We preach to others about our God Jehovah and His Kingdom because we have been commanded to do so by Christ(Mat28:19,29)
We are also fulfilling prophecy found at Mat.24:14-"This good news of the Kingdom will be preached in all the inhabited earth,for a witness to all the nations,and then the end will come".
It is a great shame that for whatever reason,that you turned your back on Jehovah.
Mat.24:13 states"Everyone who calls on the name of Jehovah will be saved."
I only hope that you will realize your error and return to your Heavenly Father before it is too late

Answer 9

Tell Her that u dont want any watchovers, and if she does it, walk away! AND DONT TURL BACK! If she follows u do what u been doin, offer sum of ur watchovers!
1 Luv

Answer 10

Just tell her you believe how you chose to and that she should respect this
Even God does not want us to Browbeat people into believing in him
Free will of Choice

Answer 11

Tell her that it is only God's right to judge, and that she, NOT being god, should respect that you have made a different choice of religion. If God doesn't like it, that's up to him, not her.