I think it can go on for a long ime with no visual contact, up to a year, providing that there are phone calls and letters. HOWEVER, the real question you should ask is how long can it last when you finally do live close to one another? If your entire relationship has been built long distance, the shock will come when you are always in contact. Often, in this situation, it becomes too much of a good thing, as you are both used to being able to do your own thing and not have to accommodate them. Often this new stage of the relationship only lasts about a month. I would be inclined to say if you're not going to see each other for a while, to call it off so you don't have o ache for them and worry about them contantly. Then, if and when you are permanantly close to each other, reconsider a relationship.
Good luck with your choices.
2006-08-08 15:02:57
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answered by Jigga 3
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Thats pretty good if you get to see each other once a month. The length a relationship can last without seeing each other doesn't really have a solid answer because it depends on the people. Some people can last months while others may consider going more than a week to be too long for them. Long distance relationship can be very tough.
2006-08-08 14:59:37
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answered by K 5
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It depends on a few things, how much you care about each other to continue a relationship and in the long term will you be able to be nearer to each other? Depends on your ages too, are you mature enough to handle not seeing each other too often, even if just for the time being? I have been with my man for fifteen years and one year only saw him for six weeks, really hard but we survived that and other things so the course of true love never did run smooth, as they say. And what about trust, can you trust each other? If it is meant to be, everything will work out.
2006-08-08 15:03:54
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answered by mrsbuld09 2
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It takes work, but it can def. work out. My husband is in the Marine Corps and was when we met and we lived 900 and something miles apart. He drove to see me the first 2 weekends and then left for Norway for a little over a month. We talked on the phone almost every day and became really close. We were engaged a few weeks after he returned from Norway. Six years and 2 kids later, we are still happily married.
2006-08-08 15:01:44
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answered by Ashley B 1
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I'm in a long distance relationship but we travel back and forth as much as possible to see each other. Plus we talk for hours on the phone everyday. One day I am going to marry him and we won't be long distance anymore can't wait....It can be really hard but if you work on it and try to see each other as much as possible and talk everyday it can work. If it is worth it keep working on it. Just be sure to tell each other your feelings and discuss what can be done to improve the problem. Talking about it is the best way to work things out.
2006-08-08 15:00:54
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-12-11 10:02:30
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answered by ? 3
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well from experence me and my boyfreind have been going out for 2 years. and he had to go to chicago for a 5 months for something but it didn't work out. and know he is coming back. he realizes how much our relationship means to him. he wants to marry me and have a family with me. for some relationships its hard to survive a long distance relationship, you just got to have the streangth and the will and the power to get through it with each other. if you are having a loing distance relationship with one another and you only see each other once a month. it prabobly wouldnt work out. i say move on and date someone within your city.
2006-08-08 14:59:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they dont see it nearly enough..
2006-08-08 15:00:03
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answered by Your best friend 6
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Well my sister inlaw just ended her long distance relationship. It lasted about a year, she lives in California and he lived in Newbraska, he moved there for college. She finally just couldnt handle not being able to see him, it created too much stress and frustration so they ended up arguing everytime they talked.
2006-08-08 14:58:34
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answered by MommyBlueEyes 1
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i have no idea, but good luck with that and have a nice day.lol, no but really the long distance thing can work if you two are willing to be loyal to one another.But i have to be honest, if im involved with someone and were serious,there is no way in (you know where) i can go without seeing him for soooo long, love hurts man.........get over it.Oh and have a nice day.
2006-08-08 15:01:59
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answered by Dee 2
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