Well, there's this boy and I really love him. It's gotton to that point where I accidently call people Bobby on an accident. I can't get him out of my mind or my dreams (not to mention my fantasys). I've asked him out plenty of times but he thinks it will mess up our friendship. I try to tell him all my feelings but I chicken out. I'm thinking if I tell him everything then he'll change his mind. How can I tell him the truth without chickening out,being too blunt, or making him think I'm out of my mind or in other words crazy?
2006-08-08 14:34:41 · 15 answers · asked by andersonvolt93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't think I'm crazy already, he's a real sweetheart and i just need advice for how i tell him not how crazy i am or that it's not worth telling him okay? so unless you got a way for me to tell him then to answer this question . thanks!
2006-08-08 14:43:28 · update #1
well, you'd better make sure that he loves you too.And you can know that if you speak to another boy who's supposed to be a hunk you know,if you smell jealousy then he loves you, so there you get confidence. & try to look sexy to him you know see what he likes in a woman & do it, don't let him feel that you're drooling on him but charm him by the things he likes then he'll come to you & see how much you love him. hope this works out for you.
2006-08-08 14:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by *PoiSoN GiRL* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he has made it clear he isnt interested in that type of relationship.
You should just concentrate on the friendship and move on... also if he is the slightest bit interested, at this point he is getting your attention anyway , so he doesnt need to commit anything to you. I think you should move on and be his friend. This may turn out to be a great friendship, or it may spark him to make a move on you before he loses you.. but in either case, dont expect one or the other.. just be his friend and go on about life, meet people, date people.. be happy, but whatever you do.. dont do anymore swooning over him...
2006-08-08 21:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't accept your asking him out and told you it was b/c of it will mess up your friendship....he is either giving you BS b/c he is not interesting or he is really telling the truth. So just ask him to be honest..... don't tell him how much you like him though..he will think you are weird....wait and see what he says .
2006-08-08 21:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. He does not seem interested. He is giving excuses not to go out. Hang in there a little longer. You have shown interest. Let him make the next move. Don't appear desperate to him. Just Be yourself.
2006-08-08 21:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by ranee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already turned you down a few times. Get him drunk and take advantage of him, at least that'll take care of the fantasy. Assuming you are both 21
2006-08-08 21:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is love?
If you think you love him? Are you gay? If you are gay does he know?
If you are not even sure if you are gay, before you talk to him, see a professional first to check your sexuality. If you are really gay, and you want him to be your "lover" then you should tell him. But be prepare that he might not be able to accept that a male lover. He might choose to distant himself from you OR he might reject your advances but still chooes to remain as friends with you.
2006-08-08 21:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its important to you...You would tell him...If u are really worried about him thinking u are crazy or sumthin bad happenin cuz u told him...dont... Its up to u...u can take that chance... or jus try to forget u love him...
2006-08-08 21:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by mimi_sweethart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's not interested in you. He probably thinks that you are crazy already. So what do you have to lose? Tell him!!!
2006-08-08 21:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell it to him in a joke. or rather don't tell it to him there is more to life than having him if you can survive life without him b4 then you can also after meeting him
2006-08-08 21:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jelean Nadine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself. Be brave and take your chance. If he is a real friend he wont drop you as a friend.
2006-08-08 21:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋