what is your opinion on what is up with this man?

Question

O.K., He's 53, Been married 5 times. Has 3kids, but their mothers packed them up and took off when they were babies and he has made NO effort to see them. When sober, he thinks seeing people showing affection is gross, won't touch or be touched. Gets irate when the subject of a relationship or sex is brought up. But when he's drunk, gets weird,tries to do strange things( i even caught him with a dildo in his mouth). Likes young girls to look at and flirt with and TRIES to perform, but he can't get it up. Takes more time in front of a mirror than i do. He loves looking at pictures of himself, totally! It's like he puts on this big show, but can't do anything. And he calls anyone who thinks sex is a normal part of life, sick!! ANSWERS PLEASE!!!!! Serious. He says he's had trouble with women and relationships his whole life. BUT, another side is that until his mother went to a home recently, i swear he was in love with her, totally a tit-baby and she loved it that way too.

Answer 1

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I used to think I was the most demented, pathetic human male on the planet. After reading this I'm rejuvenated. My spirit is soaring. I am ....somewhat normal. My only question is why ask the question? His behavior speaks for itself. This guy is a narcissistic loser with a capital "L" !!

Answer 2

Who knows and who cares?? This is a very troubled person with some serious psychological issues/psychoses/neuroses all rolled up into one big mess. By his own admission he told you "he's had trouble with women and relationships his whole life." My advice: Head for the hills. Avoid him like the plague. Its a dirty bird that fouls its own nest.

Answer 3

sounds like a selfish and self obsorbed loser to me.

Answer 4

he sounds a bit wired for me,